Not every woman can be a size 0

[courtneyiscool]

[toots2375]

No. Not every woman CAN be a size zero, but no matter what crappy genetics you were dealt, no woman should be a size 24 either. Stay healthy, stay fit, minimize intake, maximize output and you will be fit. Men don't want a size zero, men want a healthy, attractive, well cared for woman... Whether she is a size 2 or a size 10.

[Jasmine 57]

Toots you cant say the no woman should be a size 24 because there are more men than you think that prefer a larger woman to a fit one. And that is proven in statistics. Just because your a plus size woman does not make you unhealthy and some women because of medical reasons and medications they take no matter how little they eat or how active they are will never be a size 10.

[toots2375]

I will have to disagree with you jas. A plus size woman is NOT healthy... No matter your bone structure, being a size 24 isn't healthy... It WILL lead to an early death... ANd if the disease is the reason for the weight, that doesn't dismiss the fact that an early death will be the result of the disease or the weight and complications from the weight.. Joints fail, arthritis, heart issues, muscle issues, operation issues etc...

[teetsonia]

I agree that being FAT is NOT healthy but, you can be overweight & healthy. I am a size 18 (use to be a 24) & I exercise at least 4-5 times per week & I eat healthy. I have never smoked, I don't drink much, I have a good cholesterol level, no high blood pressure, & I bet I could out run any of you skinny bitches....lol Just because someone is a larger size doesn't mean that they are not healthy. Every woman holds their weight different & to be honest with you, I really feel the plus sized haters are jealous; because I have dated many men & they all seem to tell me that it's the plus size gals that can express the joy of their body a lot better than the skinny gals...I am not saying to eat a box of Twinkies & love yourself, I am simply saying we all have shame, some of us you can just see it more, so next time you go to laugh at an obese person, know that some of them are carrying their pain on their weight that you can physically see but they can't necessarily see your insecurities on your tiny, thin body!~

[toots2375]

You can't be fat and healthy. It is an oxymoron. Fat is NOT HEALTHY. I wouldn't say that the skinny people look differently at heavy people out of jealousy. I don't judge my love for a person by what they weigh, but I will admit that whether or not obese people carry their pain in their weight, I am repulsed by obesity. I am sure that I will get a HUGE swill of hatemail for that, but it is the truth. I judge them to have low self-esteem, I judge them as being lazy and overeating, I judge them for not taking care of their body- that they will suffer more than they already are, I judge them for not having any pride in themselves and their appearance... Not all obese people overeat, are lazy, etc, but that doesn't mean that people don't see that when they look at them. Probably much like people lock their car doors when having to drive through cracktown.... Not all people in cracktown are criminals, but that's what a stereotype is. An instantaneous judgement.. Not always right, not always wrong. It is simply being human. Anyone who says that they don't judge people is a liar.

[teetsonia]

I appreciate your opinion as I am repulsed with your ignorance.

[Jasmine 57]

Toots I cant agree with you on this one. Not all overweight people are lazy. That is ridiculous to say. I have worked with many people who were plus size and they worked harder then the skinny bitches. Just because people of plus size dont do anything for you I can tell ya right now that most men will go for a plus size woman any day then a size 6 woman. That has been proven in statistics. That is totally being sterotypical because unless you are morbidly obese then that does not mean you are unhealthy.

[teetsonia]

Toots,

[scoopable]

Also, being overweight is not a bad thing. Overweight does not automatically equal fat. There are tons of women who are overweight and still look better and are fitter than all of us. One prime example is Serena Williams. And please don't think that you are in better shape than Serena Williams...because you aren't. Still, if you are fat/obese, you shouldn't be - Let's keep it real. But, life happens and people have illnesses/disorders/medications that they are taking that make them fat/obese and subject them to a reality that, try as they might, they cannot change. So, stop the judgments and concentrate on you! After all, you are the only person that you have total control over and the only person that you know for a fact that you can change.

[teetsonia]

Amen!

[Jasmine 57]

This is a forum not college where sources have to be sighted. I dont need to tell you where I Got my information from but being an educator I can say that my word is better then playboy. Gee is that all you have is the slut magazines. Do some internet research.

[toots2375]

I am going to have to go with Jay on this one. Not because he cites Maxim and porn magazines, but simply because it is the truth. Men don't want a beanpole by any means, but that doesn't mean they want a large woman either. I think men are more apt to have sex with and marry a larger woman because 1) they are easier to get and 2) 80% of women are overweight. It is simply odds and statistics. If you allowed a man to draw their ideal woman (inner beauty aside) you can bet that 80% of them will NOT draw a BBW.

[Kagome311]

i would like for u guys to check out this video that will make u think twice about what ppl should be like health wise , when eating properly. women who get up to a size 20 or over its not due to medical or any other excuses told by doctors. its about poor diet. everything u put into ur body will have a result either good or bad. so women who are excedingly overweight do or did have a choice at one point. when they realized that they were a little overweight from that moment should have done something. i know i cant and will not allow myself to sxceed a 16. i am now back to a 13. and carry it well. i still want to lose more n become a size 8 again. but everyone has a comfort zone of their weight, but anything over 16 should realize that its not healthy and do something about it immediately. n to saying men love huge women, is demeaning for us ladies. no man should make us think we should be overweight bc they prefer it. n no woman should succomb to any man's needs. love thyself and by doing so is watching what u put into ur body. all these processed foods, and fast food restaurants, its no wonder america has the biggest obese population in the world. so please all watch this video, a lot of doctors givr a lot crap , but this one actually wants us to be healthy. n u will realize that too. i want to educate and spread what i know to all of u beautiful ladies, inside and out, cuz i wnat u to live long healthy lives. we only get one life so please take care of ur body. feel free to ask me any questions. i am looking to be a health advisor or nutritionist in my career as well as a masseuse. i know people who have been studying nutrition for years. its only an hour long but def worth it. i tell you from the bottom of my heart it will open your eyes. thank you and god bless.

[nein3]

lol