Paul Marsh - Los Angeles, CA

[Indygirl357]

I met Paul months ago, and at first thought he was really sweet but akward. he had kind of a lisp and an odd appearance but he was fun to talk to, very smart and educated

he had just moved from Rancho cucamonga and was big in industrial and ebm music. he often went to clubs and we had a lot in common

at first I was just being friends, but decided to date him. he was cute in a way and was just fun to be around, no tlike your usual super handsome guy who is jealous and an a$$hole.

He called me a lot and we talked through Myspace and hung out at my apartment. This continued, and I started to get bad feelings about things. he was moody and would yell at his mother. He'd refer to women he dated as bitches or psychic vampires He didn't have a lot of close friends and liked to hit things when he was mad

I felt it was childish, and decided to just be friends but he kept calling and calling. he'd talk to me when I didn't want to talk to him, and it got to the point where it was just creepy

One night he came over and everythign seemed ok but when we were just sitting on the opposite ends of the couch, he was just all over me

I told him no, but he just kept trying to kiss me. It was scary, very scary and i started to cry

He stopped and asked me if I was ok. I told him I was really scared. he got very upset and hit my wall, telling me I was a user and I was leading him on. I said I was sorry and that I had tried to tell him we were just friends.

he still calls me on occasion, and keeps posting on myspace. I don't know what to do, the police told me he has to do too much before they can get involved.

A friend of his later told me that he tried to stalk some girl at a college he went to and that he is abusive and has problems with women, tht he doesn't understand when a girl just wants to be friends.

I haven't been going to the club, and I'm going to move away from my apartment because of this. I swear he drives past my place twice a week.

I'm very, very afraid. I really feel stupid for thinking I coudl judge people.

Paul Marsh is a school teacher, he's into Bruce lee and knives, has a high pitched, kind of lispy voice with his head shaved on both sides and wears glasses. he seems nice but gets moody and will stare off into space. I think he's attracted to guys but doesnt want to say so. He has a tattoo on his arm that says something in Latin. If someone makes him angry hes obsessive about it and cant let go.

I cant reall prove anything but I have to tell any women in LA to BE CAREFUL. Really hang out with anyone for a while before you invite them over.

I hope I don't sound stupid. Im sorry.