PRISON MEN!!!!

quishanumber1 · Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 0

Ladies...be very careful of ANY man who has been in these jails and prisons. I'm seeing alot of men on here that women have said were locked up and came out and they got an STD. I have worked in the Prison/Jail system for 6 years. The truth hurts so bad but here it is...90%...that's right, 90% of men incarcerated have had SOME sexual contact with another man. Some go all the way, some just do oral. But 90% have done it. We did a poll in one of the prison dorms(about 70 men). 66,yes,66 anonymously admitted to having sexual contact with another man. They will lie to their loved ones because there is NO WAY for you to find out. Prison/Jail staff are not allowed to inform you. I have seen openly gay men kiss,suck on other men on the yard and dorms and then walk up to the visitation rooms, act all macho, and kiss their women all in the mouths. YUCK!!! And I had to stand there and keep my mouth closed. THOUSANDS of women are contracting STD's including HIV because of this epidemic. If you decide to forgive a man for his crimes against society and date them MAKE him get tested for EVERYTHING before even kissing him. While waiting on test results use protection and don't kiss them opened mouth. I am informing the world about this because of love. Black women especially are increasing in HIV cases and many don't know that this is a major cause.Those men look good when they are released but protect your life at all costs. Bless you all and BE SAFE. Thank You!

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

Thanks for the info... I already knew about it, and personally I would never date a man that has been incarcerated, but that is just me. I know a LOT of women will... I can only imagine your disgust at the horrors you witnessed working there...

Jasmine 57 · Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 0

First of all why would you want to date a man that has been incarcerated? I guess it is whom evers choice, but as I have preached a million times. No woman should ever ever ever have unprotected sex no matter what unless you both have been tested and or want children. No one should ever ever ever ever ever ever ever have unprotected sex no matter what. 1 in 4 people including teens have stds and 1 in 8 are hiv positive. So why would you want to have sex without protection ever.

Valencia101 · Joined: 09 Jun 2007 Posts: 0

When you say that, do you ask a man has he ever been in prison or do you literally do a background check on a man. You can ask a man has he ever been to prison and he can lie. I've always believed that was going on in prison. And I knew that was a major reason why black women with HIV has grown over the years. Sure the men look good, but as my mom always said, ""Everything that looks good ain't good for you!""

cherylcelinaw · Joined: 16 Jun 2006 Posts: 2

You dont have to ask a man anything. Use a freaking condom each and everytime you have sex. Every single solitary time no matter what use a condom. In this day and time you dont trust any man even if he is your husband. Men cheat! period. Save yourself from heartache and embarassment and use protection

theyrdasame07 · Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 0

One word trust!! If you truely can't trust someone's manhood, you shouldn't sleep with them. But ladies there are men who are in jail for different reasons,some guilty-some not. People change and everyone deserves a second chance. Still, protect yourself!!

mansrights2007 · Joined: 22 Jul 2007 Posts: 0

Protect yourself at all times.FYI all people in prison are not guilty.My cousin has a lawsuit going right now for wrongful incarceration.They caught the real guy and tried to still keep him locked up because they fucked up.Anyway protect yourself at all times no matter if they have been to jail or not. that goes for men too, protect yourself at all times. Every buddy I have who has been burned was by his girlfriend.Protect yourself at all times.

byron12 · Joined: 09 Aug 2007 Posts: 0

You didn't mention that many of these men are raped by other men as you correctional officers stand by and do nothing.

byron12 · Joined: 09 Aug 2007 Posts: 0

You should cite the sources of your statistics since your numbers clearly don't hold water and appear to be typical misinformation.

PepperKittyn · Joined: 11 Aug 2007 Posts: 0

Good grief. You CANNOT contract HIV from KISSING ANYONE! Additionally, that statistic largely depends on where the inmate is incarcerated.