QUESTION ?

[FUZZY1]

OK HERE IS MY ISSUE. . . BACK IN HIGH SCHOOL I HAD A BEST FRIEND OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. WE SPENT ALL KINDS OF TIME TOGETHER AND EVEN THOUGHT AT ONE POINT THAT THERE WAS MORE BETWEEN US. WE FELT STRANGE ABOUT IT SO WE DECIDED TO STAY JUST BEST FRIENDS. I KNEW I LOVED THE GUY BUT I DIDN'T WANT TO RUIN WHAT WE HAD.
I GOT THIS IDEA I WOULD LOOK UP MY LONG LOST BF AFTER NOT SEEING OR HEARING FROM HIM IN OVER 11 YEARS. I WROTE HIM, AND IT TOOK HIM JUST 2 DAYS TO RESPOND. I TOLD HIM WHERE I WORKED AND HE CALLED ME. HE TOLD ME THAT I WAS THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE, AND HE SHOULD HAVE NEVER LET ME GO. HE EVEN SAID HE HAD TO SEE A COUNSELOR BECAUSE OF ME. I WAS SO HAPPY TO HERE THAT HE LOVED ME TOO, BUT ON THE OTHER HAND I'M MARRIED AND ALSO I FELT AS IF I MIGHT HAVE CAUSED HIM TO RELAPES ON WHAT HE HAD TO GO THROUGH TO GET PAST ME. HE NOW CALLS ME AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK JUST TO SAY HI. AND ONCE HE CALLED ME TO PLAY ME A SONG THAT I GAVE HIM BACK IN HIGHSCHOOL. IT WAS A LITTLE BOX THAT PLAYED YOU ARE MY SUNSHINE. HE SAID THAT HE ALWAYS LISTENS TO IT TO MAKE HIM FEEL BETTER ON A CLOUDY DAY. I TOO FEEL VERY STRONGLY ABOUT THIS GUY. I STRUGLE WITH IT ON A DAILY BASIS. BUT DO YOU THINK I MIGHT HAVE CAUSED HIM TO HAVE ISSUES? AND IN A GUYS PERSPECTIVE, WHAT SHOULD I DO TO EASE HIS PAIN?