Roger Henley, Newport Beach/Costa Mesa CA

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I recently discovered a profile on a herpes dating site, put up there by the person who gave me this. He stated in his profile that he got it 23 years ago, and after that had both remained celibate as well as "taken precautions" not to transmit to his partner. In my lifetime, my sexual partners have been very limited. I met this man in 2000 and we had a two year relationship. Shortly after we went our separate ways, I discovered the gift. This person took no "precautions" with me, in fact did not even bother to tell me he had it, and basically ruined my chances of ever having a decent relationship, since its hard enough in the normal dating pool, much less having this handicap. He was abusive to me in the relationship and then added injury to insult by permanently damaging my life and my health. I have a feeling he has done this with others. How can anyone be this evil? If he had HIV he would probably be doing the same thing, not telling anyone. People like this shouldn't be allowed on ANY dating site. In case anyone is interested, he is the VP of Finance for a large archeitectural firm in Newport Beach. Be careful who you date, they could be a liar. He also hacked into my personal email account and was reading my emails behind my back for a YEAR before I found out. Everything this guy did basically screwed my life up for the duration. There is no fixing herpes, and the other damage (financial and emotional) he caused, took years to overcome. He is not capable of loving anyone, he only wants to get it wet.