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toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

I am not sure I have this straight?? You had an EMOTIONAL affair with another man, your HUSBAND caught you, you have gone to couples counseling (minimal amount) and you feel you have done nothing wrong and he should forgive you and move on? Before I comment further or offer any advice, I want to make sure that these are the basics.

Jasmine 57 · Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 0

I dont see what your husband did wrong. Your the one who all but had an affair and you want him to understand why? He is only reacting to not being able to trust you. Its not about you trying to be a better person you basically screwed up, just because you didnt have sex with the guy doesnt mean if it had lasted a little longer that you wouldnt have. Yes your husband has the right to treat you like you did it all the way because you might as well have.

FireyBrownEyes · Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 0

Wait just one minute, you are telling us that you have taken responsibility for your OWN actions and you are bettering yourself. IF that is the case, then I say good for you that you are but from your own words you have NOT. You are blaming the

klbrooks_25 · Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 0

I haven't given the whole scoop, but I'm not blaming my husband. I've taken responsibity for my share of hurt but all I want is for him to take responsibilty for his.

p.stevens · Joined: 12 Apr 2007 Posts: 0

Your fault NOT his. YOU have given him reason for his mistrust, NOT the other way around.

Jasmine 57 · Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 0

what does he need to take responsibility for. I dont see that he did anything. Your the one who did it not him.