So much spiteful hate...

catscalw · Joined: 15 Mar 2008 Posts: 112

It's sad when people chose thier own victimhood and deny that they have choice.

This site is so full of spiteful hate towards Men.

Is there ANYONE here who will take ANY responsibility whatsoever for their part in the breakdown of a relationship?

Or is it just going to be the same boring, tired, victim rhetoric that has nothing to say, and goes nowhere?

barton71 · Joined: 14 Sep 2008 Posts: 6

Its easy for a woman to play the victim though. Guys have a much harder time playing that role, for the simple reason that society doesnt accept emotion from men as readily as it accepts it from women. When a relationship end, a woman will go to her friends and cry her heart out, where as a man will go to his friends and drink beer and go chasing some other woman (not true in 100% of cases, but in a healthy majority). So in a round about way, it is our fault that women always play the victim card when a relationship ends. The only thing men can do is put our POV across, and hope that the woman sees the logic in it all. Maybe posting on sites like this will bring some perspective to the situations. There are always reasons men and women do the things they do which cause the end of relationships, and calling them "bastards" or "bitches" on message boards doesnt help.