Taking responsibilities for your own actions...

FireyBrownEyes · Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 0

I want to first start by saying I realize I'm leaving myself open on here. I feel that it's time though that people in general take responsibilities for their own actions, whatever those actions are. I do not believe in posting anyone, regardless male or female, on here but each to their own. If whomever has done wrong then karma will surely bite them in the ass. I hope this will help others in NOT following down a similar path as mine.

My first marriage, I married at barely 18 & divorced at 24. I was not a good wife nor was he a good husband. We were both on drugs & too young to be married but we were. He cheated on me off & on the whole time. I did the same. Two wrongs did not make a right. It ended in a divorce. He was scorn & I happily moved on, period.

My second & current marriage, I married three years later. He cheated on me, I left and we did get back together. I have no regrets about that and I know that I will get comments over this but that was karma biting me in my ass over the 1st marriage. I rarely give second chances but this ain't baseball either. Yes, I have been faithful in this marriage & am determined not to be like I was in my first.

I've learned that sometimes in life, your mere existence is all that it takes. Holding your head up high but not too high and just knowing being vindictive does not vindicate.

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

I think there is a difference between forgiving your spouse, or anyone for that matter, and FORGETTING what they have done... Forgiveness is easy to acheive... Forgiving someone doesn't mean that you forget.

Jasmine 57 · Joined: 10 Jul 2006 Posts: 0

You think Karma is biting you in the ass because of your first marriage. OH PULEESE. You married again another loser and went back with him. Its not karma biting you in the ass it is stupidity. If it works out then fine but once a cheater is always a cheater.

FireyBrownEyes · Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 0

Well if this entry has bothered you then I deeply apologize but it wasn't directed at you. I'm here to let people know that the saying

FireyBrownEyes · Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 0

Well, the only body part that I made with this post was coming straight from my heart not my genitals...how stupid of a comment is that...nor using or buying sex toys from a garage sale...WTF entry did you read cause I never said anything about using or buying sex toys. Get your facts together before making a fool out of yourself with stupid comments that have nothing to do with this post. Just stupid!

LAPeep · Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 6

I get the analogy about used sex toys. With men posted on this site, the common factor is that they do not respect women. They see them as sex objects, or sex toys, to be used and discarded. They will leave you with stds and worse because they pretend to be upstanding men, and women like you, think that it is unladylike to expose them. You have been brainwashed by society to think that it is okay for women to be treated like this. Letting other women know about their history gives them the choice to decide what to do. If you read about a guy on here, and want to date him, fuck him, whatever, so be it. Most women have enough self esteem to want better but make their decisions based on what they hear from the man, which is MANY times lies.