This site is a joke

[Chalene]

Nice guys don't end up being posted on Dont Date Him Girl. If a man cannot remain civil with their ex after the relationship ended - there is a good reason to avoid him. Of course, you are just the poor victim who is being slandered. By the way, slander is UNTRUE things being SAID and Libel is UNTRUE things in WRITING, genius. If what is being said is true then it is not slander if said or Libel if written, it is simply your history. This site and womansavers are two sites that millions of women check to see if the newest, greatest guy (ha!) is posted. Also, this site will end up popping up when your next target types your name into google, or when a client or prospective employer, or well, even your sister or friend. They may not say anything but they will know. The days are long gone when what you do can be swept under the rug. Women now know the truth about you and can run when you even look at them.

[cjgilc]

Exactly the problem with this site. I've been listed here for 5 months and only found out a couple days ago. Somehow being arrested once for a DUI = shady, bad past and several run ins with the law. My criminal record is clean.This site is completely void of justice. The anonymous poster should be required to submit the subject's phone number and email before being able to post. If they don't know them well enough to do that they shouldn't be allowed to post crap online. After they post, the man should be notified that someone has posted about them.

[stefan_BELGIUM]

I agree!! they should take this site down, in Belgium this is not allowd, makinge someone look bad with false reasons, you get get al law suit for that and 95% of the cases you wil winn that.

[courtneyiscool]

have you been? Did you not hear about the moron that tried to sue the site once before and LOST? The site is protected by a federal law that says that the people who POST here are liable for what they say, not the owner of the site.

This site has helped millions of women and help them avoid dating bad guys, but also helped them find good guys. Have you read the articles? Did you not see that any guy can post a rebuttal on the site? It's at the bottom of every post.

This site is no different from MySpace, Facebook and other forums online where people can post what they want when they want.

It's about time people - MEN INCLUDED - start taking responsibility for their behavior and stop trying to blame their problems on a website or anyone else!

[probity100]

I have been rather interested in this thread and feel like I would like to make a comment. I think that there is a percentage of women who have posted about men on this site for revenge and other reasons. I am not saying that is the case for all women but you would have to be silly not to realise that a small percentage have not well-intentioned reasons. I posted about this man in Germany and everything I posted about him including his relationship with other women and his sex dates with men and women both in Germany and here in Australia can be proven and I have kept the evidence in case he decided to go down that track of litigation. I do not want to see any other woman fall prey to this person's web of lies and his secret sex life. If he had been honest with me about it I could have then asked questions and made an informed choice about whether or not I continued the relationship.
There are some men on the internet and in life that are predators and if I ever come across a man that I am interested in who appears on this site I will read the comments and posts and then decide for myself as to whether there is any validity in them or not. I think most smart women would do the same and all our experiences are vastly different and our motivations are different. I only expect that if another woman searches on this site for this man's name and comes across what I have posted, she will make up her own mind but at least she can be just a little wary and not jump in boots and all and have a similar experience to mine.

[barton71]