This site is a joke

[lojack25]

[lojack25]

And Raven whatever, geez this is like playing WoW. When you think a relationship is ending don't put the ball in the guys court because 75% of guys aren't as tactful as women are in these situations. You are an adult, you know whats going on, take control and end it on your terms. Never expect someone else is going to do things the way you would , that is your first step to disappointment and frustration. You can't contro what someone else does but you can control yourself. So handle it your way instead of waiting for someone else to di it.

[lojack25]

Forgot to add my name to last post

IT'S LERON PERRY ELLIS!

[Magdalinad]

I am a former long-term girlfriend of LeRon's, I know him well. I have read the anonymous post about him and it is truly offensive!! My name is Magdalina and we lived together for over a year just before he moved to Oregon. He was recovering from his surgery with ME in a two bedroom condo on the beach in Santa Monica. When he went to Oregon, it was for therapy, so the part where you say you "took care of him" and he promised you the world after he returned to basketball, is a personal affront to myself, it is obviously self-serving. Yes, he played for three years in the NBA, that part is true. Then he had several successful years playing overseas as well, that is also true. LeRon doesn't need to wear NBA gear to get attention, people gravitate to him because of his engaging and outgoing personality. He was always generous with me to a fault. He used to drive my Porsche, and I drove his truck, I wouldn't hand that over to a thief and a liar. When I left town for weeks at a time, I had no problem having him stay. He also never cheated on me, I guess he never had a reason. When it came to his departure, there was no drama. We are friends to this day, there are no hard feelings. I think you are projecting what YOU hoped your future would be together, not on reality.

[Guitarista]

"When a guy tells a woman that it's over straight to their face and why, they still end up on this site because then they are insensitive and mean for speaking their mind and the truth. You can't handle the truth and half the time men are not equiped to deal with your emotions, that's the way it is so deal with it. We are totally different and when you can accept that fact you will start to have a better understanding about what to expect and how to get the results you want. Again, my name is LeRon Perry Ellis, i dont believe in anon posting."

That is nothing but a stupid rationalization, yet unfortunately, one that is commonly used.

Honorable and straightforward behavior is honorable and straightforward behavior and it is the same regardless of gender.

And if you had any character you would already know that.

[Guitarista]

It's also interesting to note that you said that "guys aren't equipped to deal with your emotions and that's the way it is, so deal with it".

Well, using that same logic, one could easily say, "women aren't equipped to deal with guy's emotions, and that's the way it is, so deal with it" as well.

But you see, using your rationalization, you shift all of the responsibility for dealing with ALL of it onto the women. You cannot even acknowledge that part of the problem may be a deficiency of YOURS.

How very convenient and slick of you. No work ever for YOU to do, if that's just "the way it is", is there?

But the best among women aren't buying your line.

All you will get with your way of thinking is a woman who will eventually bore you because she is not aware of her own worth.

And that is all you deserve.

[mizzluvable]

this is not a site for bashing. Personally, what kind of person would waste their time making up things to post on a website if its not true? My time is valuable and important, therefore I would never post anything false nor would I want it done to me. The problem here is that men do not like to be caught or exposed. Men constantly get their way and get away with so much. women should have the right to speak their mind. Besides, its not like MEN are going to listen and take into consideration their thoughts and feelings.If that was the case there wouldn't be so many hurt women from being deceived by men. If you feel like a post has been made about you that is not true, then submit a rebuttal. PLAIN AND SIMPLE. Dont get mad because you are being exposed. If you do not to be painted in a bad light THEN DONT DO THE DIRT!

on the flipside as a woman posting, we should try our best to just state the facts and own up to our mistakes as well. I am aware of my mistakes(although they are small) and I am working on that. we also should not make up any lies as well. then that just makes us look as bad as the men. Lets face it women, we are cursed with having emotions and morals. Lets just listen to our intuition and with any slight doubt, DROP HIM and move on. thats what I am going to do.

[courtneyiscool]

their dating stories, not for women to bash guys. If there are women out there using this site for a purpose other than warning other women about the guys they've dated, then you're doing all the site's members a major disservice.

Do like MissLuvable says and state the facts. If the guy is a good guy, you can state that, too. Just don't mess up the site that women have come to depend on for their dating safety.