Tired of being a Virgin

sweetheart11 · Joined: 25 May 2008 Posts: 4

I'm tired of being a virgin and It one guy who I want to have sex with but he don't want to take my virginity lets just say this i am so legal and honestly it not as special but i'm not going to give it up to just anyone but my friend he the one i want to set me free what do I do Embarassed

rosebuttons · Joined: 04 Sep 2007 Posts: 145

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I think this friend of yours has a lot of respect for you not to take your virginity being he doesn't feel the same way.

square813 · Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 246

you cant pick someone you have to just let it happen. no offense but get over him your destroying your friendship by pushing yourself on him. and theres really nothing wrong with being a virgin either

loves73animals · Joined: 26 May 2008 Posts: 1

I'm a virgin also, and in no hurry to loose it, I'd love to have a friend like that who respected me and my body

MissPrissy7 · Joined: 02 May 2008 Posts: 31

Like the other reply said “I think this friend of yours has a lot of respect for you not to take your virginity being he doesn't feel the same way.” Idea

A LOT of boys and some men nowadays would have sex with you today and be gone tomorrow not caring if it was your first time or not and that would break your heart.

Sex for most women is a very sensitive and special act and you should wait until your ready and in a loving, trusting, and caring relationship to loose your virginity. I waited until I was 18 to have sex and when my first and I went through our dramatized break up I was still an emotional wreck. It was tough because sex can bring feelings you never even knew you had. My advice to you is NEVER throw yourself to ANY man Exclamation

& be patient, when it’s your time and when you meet him you’ll know it.

DJ_MI · Joined: 16 Apr 2008 Posts: 10

How old are you? When you say that you are tired to be a virgin it seems that you are like 30 years old! C'mon...

foxygrandma71 · Joined: 14 Jul 2006 Posts: 1

theonlyoneleft · Joined: 04 Jun 2008 Posts: 4

I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin. I'm still a virgin and i've been with my bf for a long time. you'd be surprised but i wanna stay a virgin till i get married and have kids.
I assume that you have this concept in mind that everyone should lose it at a young age or before a certain age. Just because you are "so legal" doesn't mean you should just lose it to this friend of yours. Clearly this friend of yours doesn't even like you.. so how could you call that "not just gonna give it up to anyone"? You're not in a relationship with this friend of yours, so if you lose it to him, you dont know whats gonna happen later? what if he just wanted to sleep with you?
Choosing to have sex is a personal choice but you need to think carefully before you make any decisions. You don't want to have any regrets later on in life.

mmonty · Joined: 28 Jul 2008 Posts: 2

I honestly think you should wait as long as you possibly can. Your virginity is something you should treasure because even though it doesn't seem like it, it is special, and you only get one. Wait for someone that truely loves you, because you don't want to regret something like this for the rest of your life. There really is nothing wrong with being a virgin, even when the world today makes it seem like there is. I wish I had waited, it was the biggest mistake I have ever made, and now I regret it everyday, and it's the worst feeling in the world. I would honestly do anything to be a virgin again. And don't forget to make sure you are ready, and give it to a really special person, because you will remember that person for the rest of your life.