To anyone Help! I am so angry and dont know why

[lau219]

I am so angry at everyone that I am losing myself. I don't understand why nothing in life works out for me no matter what I do or who I am. I want to get revenge on my ex for everthing. When I am sure that all is going well everything suddenly goes down the toilet. I feel totally used and everyone acts like thats the way things are. I don't know if its worth dating or being friends when people turn your back on you and leave you when you least expect it. I am tired of getting screwed over and no amount of kindness or friendship I can give makes any difference. I feel that I might as well take what I can from others and leave them with nothing. What can I do to change this?

[aprilicious]

i think talking to a counselor would be a good start. maybe you can try to think of patterns ( from both you and the other person) in these relationships that you've had. it's ok to set limits and to say no!!! that does not make you a bad or mean person. instead of focusing on revenge for you ex, make a game plan for you. what you are willing, and not willing to put up with!

[rosebuttons]

I think going to see a counselor is a good idea. You need to lift up your self esteem. if you keep thinking negative things thats all you are going to receive. Dont focus on revenge, its like setting yourself on fire in the hopes that the smoke bothers the other person. People are just going to disapoint you in life you have to learn to pick yourself up and move on and learn some lessons along the way. Good luck to you.

[lau219]

Thanks. I appreciate it very much. This is really hard for me.

[Lilah1]

[Lilah1]

And there are good people. Not everyone is out for their own wealth, some value friendship, so don't give up hope but learn to be good with yourself.