WARNING! Bill Nipper ( bill_billy - plentyoffish) and more..

anonymous09 · Joined: 05 Feb 2009 Posts: 12

Besides the above alias he is AKA extremebill99 on many match.com sites, tallpiratebill on aim/aol and adultfriendfinder, bill_billy_billiam on yahoo, bill b, billnipp and more. WATCH OUT he is NOT honest and thinks its not lying if he just doesnt tell you things or omits telling you key info about himself.
RUN RUN RUN!! He's addicted to internet porn, sex and extremely addicted to having attention from women and having them be attracted to him. He's a pathological Liar, Emotional Manipulator, User and Abuser. Cheated on both his wives, lies and omits key information to the women he meets! Girls this man is a serious repeat offender. If you have had the misfortune to run across him and considering a meet, please do yourself a huge favor and check out Narcissists & Psychopaths, borderline personality and Bipolar. This man/child falls under the heading of all! Ive researched and there is currently no successful therapy for these diseases - not counseling, not medications, nothing, not too mention he doesn't want to seek help! He has two failed marriages due to his addictions and impulses. Please don't be fooled. No one woman will ever satisfy him enough to stop wanting more and more attention from women. He is unable to emotionally let anyone in, he is not wanting a relationship and does not want to get married again (but won't come outward and say that, it would defeat his purpose of getting you into bed. His favorite answer to anything he doesn't want you know or tell you is "I dunno" and "I don't remember". He will put on a good act and you will feel like he's into you because he’s affectionate (hugs, hand holding, neck, shoulder & back rubs). He is very charming, good looking, soft spoken and hard to resist, but it's all part of the trap to get you to bed! Trust me when I tell you, there is not one sincere, truthful bone in his body. If you succumb to his charms you will eventually find yourself standing at the gates of hell trying to put back together the pieces of your life. I’ve had the misfortune to have met him and fallen lure to his charms and experience a traumatic event when with him one morning when his (separated) wife came to drop off his kid unexpectedly and when she found he was with someone she got very upset and a commotion started, she started asking him if he was honest and told me all about him and what he did and what kind of person was I for crawling in bed with a guy I just met (yes I was stupid for that, but again…his charm lured me). At first it angered me because he only told me a vague reason for his marriage failing “they had troubles all throughout and towards the end he was dating” so I believed she just didn’t make him happy and I lashed out at her through the bedroom door but as she kept yelling I heard more details and heard him say to her “well what I didn’t tell, you just did”, after I heard more I came to realize that this woman was telling the truth and she genuinely was in love with her husband and would have done anything for him and he really burned and hurt her. I started to feel sorry for her. I heard enough, decided he was a loser and climbed out his window and left. Fortunately my encounter with him was short lived but not before he got me into bed. He is selfish and thoughtless. Ladies he is also financially strapped and as a last resort he may even try to get close to one of you and suggest 'living together' or better yet get YOU to suggest it...you will only be serving as a convenience to him. He will still mess online and meet others but will keep it at work, he will have them meet him at his work parking lot. I learned all this about him that morning and things she said, he did with me. He is a tall and handsome guy and mostly preys on thick, full figured, heavy set women, plain looking with dark hair (he likes dark hair) as they are easy targets for him to lure since most would be desperate and excited that a man like him would show interest in them!!! They fall for his charms and he usually gets them in his place or he in theirs by the first or second time seeing them! All he is after is SEX and attention, an ego boost. He doesnt go for the thin girls becuase he stands a good chance of them rejecting him, he is balding badly (and wears a ballcap to hide it). He will travel to neighboring states if he thinks he can get some or have someone come to his place. He works in New Brunswick at BMS. You may feel like you'll be the one to change him and catch him with your kindness but it won't work. He just wants your attention and to get into your pants...there is no emotional intimate attachment for him. So ladies beware if you do decide to ignore this warning and meet and date him...dont think he's only dating you! Doesnt answer his cell? He's with someone else, he will go to a bathroom or something and then call back, listen for the echo or signs that he's outside..somewhere away from the other woman he's with ....he will lie! He did that with me when we were out too From my experience he is a heartless, selfish, conscienceless, soulless being who will drain you of whatever self-esteem and self-worth you have left if you let him.

Darln766 · Joined: 10 Feb 2009 Posts: 19

I cannot EDIT the original post but I need to clarify and make things more clear. Posts are awaiting deletion for being duplicates but until then I want to clear some things up that were said. He was also on Plentyoffish as bill_billy and deleted his acct after a woman contacted him and told him she read alot of bad things about him and he found out he was on this site. He will probably be back online again at some point on sites using different names/towns. If I sound 'bitter' in my post well WHO isn't bitter when their husband who they loved unconditionally, trusted, have a family with and had the dream of growing old with has been living a different life behind your back? I'm not bitter, just trying to 'help' other unsuspecting, trusting women out there to not go through the deceivment/heartbreak me and my children did. To this day he admits if it weren’t for his problems/addictions we had a GREAT marriage and there were no complaints about me so don't let him try to fool you into thinking we weren’t a good match (that’s just a brief way of giving you an explanation without having to get into the REAL reason we are not together anymore – his addictions/behaviors). With his problems, no one would be a good match unless you don't care that he's chatting & meeting other women and lying to you. If my postings sound mean, they are not, just trying to get to the point. I am not a mean person at all. Just read up on NARSSISISTs and that will tell you everything to a T of what he’s like.

In my post I also mention he has 'many' what I mean with that is YOU will not be the only one, he will not admit it but he is open to chatting/meeting others. He wastes no time. He may not have a whole harem but he’s not wanting any commitments and that includes ‘dating’ commitments, he will date others, not just you BUT he won’t tell you that. Don't think you'll be the only one he's 'talking', chatting with or meeting. If he did it while being married, he’s going to do it while 'dating'. He's not sincere nor faithful. He knows about this site and knows he's here...so he will probably try to slow things down or change the way he acts to prove he's not as described here. He will play down his addictions and what really happened.......Nothing in here is exaggerated, it’s all true! Put us both to a lie detector test! He’ll get you to his apartment or he to yours. He was on adultfriendfinder sex dating site too – CLAIMS he wasn’t there for sex, just for dating and not everyone there is looking for sex. Come on, Everyone knows it’s a SEX dating site. This is the type of excuses/lies he’ll give to get out of something he’s caught in.
From what I know so far....he went to one woman’s house for a first meeting (stupid on her part too!), met one woman for coffee, then had her in his bed the next time (he was naked and claims they didn’t do anything, just sleeping), and now (according to him) another one from Plentyoffish drove and hour each way to HIS place for a first meeting after only talking on the internet and phone for what, a day? AND after her sister told her about this site and seeing my posting she STILL went to his place again on a weekday evening, she has a 15 and 8 year old (what did she do with her 8 year old on a school night?) - What is wrong with women and risky stupid behavior like that? Are they THAT desperate to meet a stranger at his home or have him in theirs and who is on a cheaters website with a history and deep mental issues? It's crazy, don't they have any respect for themselves, their safety and care for their kids? How do they know they would be coming back home to their kids after meeting a guy they don't know at his place or inviting him to theirs? They are crazy! Do they think this is all a lie? It's all true and NO speculations either. I have lived it and caught him many times, I know his lies, games, manipulation tactics, how he works...how does he get these women to trust him so quick? Yes, he has the innocent, softspoken, harmless look - separated with two kids...but that doesn't mean he's trustworthy and not a player. If this helps at least one woman to not fall into his game, I'd be happy. He comes across nice and sweet, he lies really good, is very convincing, has that boyish innocent looking face but he is NOT capable of a monogamous relationship, the family life, and is not honest. He lies even about the smallest things…i.e. I asked him where he got a plant and he said he bought it at the grocery store, went into how he liked it and thought it was cool. A year later when we were separating, I asked him again..this time he said his mother gave it to him (obviously forgot his lie a year ago) but WHY lie about something like that? He HAS to lie…it’s habit for him. This is what he does. He plays words too, the literal word game...if you don't ask, he won't tell. If a subject doesn’t come up or is not talked about – it’s open game for him to think you don’t care about it and he won’t bring it up and if you’re not very specific with your words and what you’re asking, he will give an answer and play the game of 'well you didn't ask specifically about that' or ‘you haven’t asked again since the last time’ ie. If asked ‘are you chatting with other people/women?’ he’ll answer NO. But in his mind, he’s not lying if he’s not chatting with other people/women (plural) as was (literally) asked, but is chatting with a woman! That’s an example of how he plays words and thinks and did actually answer that question that way. Just watch your backs and use your brains ladies. He will always be wanting attention of women anywhere, any way he can. He's even met women where he works (not just where he works now but other jobs) so he doesn't need the internet. He's also not being really picky...he'll 'befriend' someone who's not his type like the one with the two kids mentioned earlier (says she’s ‘eh’, bottom heavy, pear shaped, lighter hair (he’s more into brunettes, heavyset & shapely, If you got big boobs your IN just for that)! But hey she’s a woman showing him niceness and attention fulfilling his attention addiction for now. His porn addicted is not just the 'yeah' I have some sites I visit, normal guy thing...NO, he has spent excessive time watching videos, he actually can and HAS spent HOURS at a time and has done things that are really not normal and plain gross (I lived with him and found things!). I won’t go into what they are here but if you want to know, send me a message. After I brought the amount of time he spent on porn up he went to doing it when I wasn’t home or not in the same room. I hated to leave the house becuase I knew he'd hop on the computer. He really has deep issues and little patience with kids. But to get you to like him and trust him, he will put on a good act. He’s funny and very good at fooling and BSing. He did a lot of things I liked to do when we met…but after we moved in together (which was quick), that stopped and I noticed his excessive porn/sex addictions online and caught him emailing/meeting up with other women. He’s done this from day one and hasn’t stopped, he just ‘hid’ it better, it’s an embedded behavior/addiction. Said at one point that the family life & doing family things is not him, he’s just been pretending, trying to be the normal family man/husband but it doesn’t work for him. He’s a loner, no male friends only interested in females. He doesn’t like doing much but he’ll probably do things he’s not really into at first so you think he’s fun ….basically it’s just TV, hangout and sex. But do know..that’s all it is to him...he wants nothing 'heavy'. 'Nothing heavy' to him, means no commitment, doesn’t want to have to think or worry about you or anything but hey, if sex happens, it happens but it doesn’t mean anything, don’t read into it. ..basically 'a friend with benefits', he won’t' come out and say that though.....he likes sex and attention (everyone does but this is excessive and an addiction), no emotional attachment although you may ‘feel’ there is but don’t be fooled, he just likes to touch and feel, hug and cuddle, no emotional attachment will grow with it either, he is emotionally unable to let anyone in and if he meets someone else while seeing/sleeping with you, just remember he covered himself by wanting nothing ‘heavy’, there’s no ‘dating’ commitment.
Again, I’m not doing this because I’m bitter, just hate to see someone else get fooled and go through the emotional turmoil he’s put me, his ex and our kids through. Even though he does have ‘odd’ behaviors and idiosyncrasy’s I did love him unconditionally! Just couldn’t take the deceivment/lies anymore after this last time. He’s not going to change…not for anyone. You won’t change him. Take Care! Feel free to message me if you have questions.

snicklebunny · Joined: 18 Feb 2009 Posts: 14

I discovered this site about a month ago, and have been agonizing about posting here. I feel stupid, embarrassed and ashamed, but I see it would be a public service that this man be put in his place.

He discoverd me a few years ago through profile searching on Yahoo Messenger. We chatted and got along well, commiserated about our marriages. Time went on and I was separating from my husband and I thought he was separated/separating from his wife. I would have never knowingly been with a married man... but I now know that when a man says he is separated... RUN the other way.

I was so preoccupied with my marriage coming apart that when I met this man on-line, he seemed to fit exactly what I was missing in my life. We chatted about everything, I thought he was being honest with me, I asked a lot of direct questions and he gave me straight answers(or so I thought). I now also realize from reading the posts here about him that its all part of his game... I was sooooo played, and for so long too. I actually cared for and worried over this man, boy was I stupid.

I really hope that who ever reads this decides that he is a bad choice and that he really has no care for anyone else. I was so blind to everything, and naive too, wow to admit that here ugh

I have learned alot in the past 4 years sice my separation. Women have to be careful about who they pick and date. I wish at the time I was a little more wise and if hindsight was 20/20 I would have avoided this smooth talker lilke the plague. There is so much more I could say, but it is really tough for me to write this... I am just proud of myself that I got this out, and if anyone has questions about this 'man' I will answer honestly and truthfully... I DEFFINITELY want to save someone else from feeling the way I do right now.

TheOtherWoman1 · Joined: 06 Jul 2009 Posts: 2

Can not find info on him on WomanSavers, was it deleted?

snicklebunny · Joined: 18 Feb 2009 Posts: 14

Not too sure, I haven't checked it... I know it was there before I found him listed here. The same posting was here as on there, reading that posting shocked and disgusted me.

Why are you checkin up on him?

Any questions let me know, I wasted too much time on this creep, but I have also learned a lot about him too.

snicklebunny · Joined: 18 Feb 2009 Posts: 14

TheOtherWoman1 --

I just saw the message you sent to me. There is no notification to PM's feel free to message me here if you have any questions or send me your e-mail address through a PM and let me know here to check it.

fyshcalledwanda · Joined: 20 Dec 2009 Posts: 11

http://kinkysmile.com/default.php?page=profile_main&id=114462

TheOtherWoman1 · Joined: 06 Jul 2009 Posts: 2

He is honest in what he wants - SEX... and btw - he is honest in the way he describes what he can give you Wink

So if you want great sex - he is THE guy. Man can go for hours & several times a day. Quality & Quantity in sex. Just don't expect anything else Smile

And make him shower - you don’t know where his mouth and other parts were half an hour before he knocks on your door.

fyshcalledwanda · Joined: 20 Dec 2009 Posts: 11

hello other woman.. this guy is a plague... a lying, deceitful, sneaky, cruel,disgusting thing that has the nerve to call himself a man. there are plenty of men out there who can give you alla that he gives, without lying and hurting , and cheating... Thsi guy is gonna get it sooner or later... or he may very well already have gotten it and doesnt know.. like a disease!!!! Get yourselves tested ladies!!!!!! and seek counseling if you need it... He did this to me many years ago and Im so glad to know it wasnt ME!!! I thought I was nuts.. turns out..... not so much Smile

snicklebunny · Joined: 18 Feb 2009 Posts: 14

I think its interesting that there are still more women finding this and adding to it... He is the worst kind of guy.

Fyshcalledwanda, how long ago did you cross this 'man'

I have been done with him for a year, and in such a better place in my life, thank goodness

fyshcalledwanda · Joined: 20 Dec 2009 Posts: 11

Glad you have moved on, but I dont think you ever get over something like that.. It is traumatic, to say the least. Be strong, sister!