Warning Ladies...Bill Nipper(extremebill99 match.com) NJ

[darln766]

AKA tallpiratebill on aim, yahoo= bill_billy_billiam and other aliases such as bill bill, billnipp, bill b and more. Im trying to figure out how to post a a picture and a post but its not working for me....he's addicted to internet porn and sex, and meeting women online and in person. He's not interested in a relationship at all but is interested in the attention and sex. He's a pathological Liar, Emotional Manipulator, User and Abuser. Cheated on both his wifes and on the women he was meeting on the side as well! Girls this man is a serious repeat offender.. If you have had the misfortune to run across him and considering a meet, please do yourself a huge favor and check out Narcissists & Psychopaths, borderline personality and Bipolar. This man/child falls under the heading of all! Yes! he is very charming, good looking, affectionate, soft spoken and hard to resist, but it's all part of the trap! Trust me when I tell you, there is not one sincere, truthful bone in his body..If you succumb to his charms you will eventually find yourself standing at the gates of hell trying to put back together the pieces of your life.. that is where I am now and we have a son together too...He had it all and lost it. Has nothing to show for himself now. Owns nothing! I got it all and its what he deserves for being so selfish and thoughtless. He never thought he'd get caught. Ladies he may even try to get close to one of you to make things easier on him financially..since at this point he can barely get by on his own and may suggest 'living together' as his last resort....so in comes the user...beware he will still play online and meet others but will keep it at work, he will have them meet him at his work parking lot and go to lunch or dinner from there...thats where I found them! Thought he was being slick. Studies show that there is currently no successful therapy for this disease - not counseling, not medications, nothing! He has two failed marriages due to his emotional and psychological problems. Now he IS really seperated because he couldn't stop meeting woman online and making dates and when got caught he claimed them as 'just woman friends', well to the surprise of the woman I found him with...she thought he was seperated, so he lied to her too. So evidently NOT looking for any long term REAL friends.. I found out what he was doing (again) because his cellphone called me by accident while he was meeting one of his woman cyber friends and heard them meeting and getting in his car. I found he's been doin this during our whole marriage, secret email accts and IMs he accessed while at work and he even did it with his first marriage but met woman in person at places he worked since he had no internet at that time. Now that he really is seperated..he is playing again and even more ruthfully. Everyone in his family has this issue...mother, 3 sisters and his son from his first marriage is bipolar and skitsophrenic.
Please don't be fooled. No one will ever satisfy him to stop wanting constant attention from women. He is unable to emotionally let anyone in..he is not wanting a relationship and does not want to get married again but he will put on a good act and you will feel like he's really into you because of his affectionate touches (hugs, hand holding, neck, shoulder & back rubs ultimately leading to him unsnapping your bra, etc)......he's usually attracted to thicker, full figured or heavier woman (but who keep themselves nice, not sloppy looking) with dark hair. You may feel like you can change him with your kindness but it won't work. He just wants your attention and to get into your pants...there is no emotional intimate attachment for him but he will make you feel like there is with his affectionate touches but to him it's just his way of getting you give him what he's after...attention and sex but he won't say that..because he'll want you coming back so he can have more..but you won't be the only one.... From my experience (and I experienced it for 12 years but wanted to keep my family together and thought he could overcome it and so did he...but he couldn't, kept going back to it!!!) he is a heartless, selfish, conscienceless, soulless being who will drain you of whatever self-esteem and self-worth you have left if you let him.

[darln766]

he will travel to PA, all over NJ and possibly Maryland and staten Island if he thinks he can get some..or have someone come to his place. He works in New Brunswick at BMS and will meet women there too or have them meet him in the parking lot. Having trouble posting a profile on him though..wish I could warn every woman so he can be stopped and give him what he really deserves...NO attention from any woman!

[darln766]

Also...when I say he's usually attracted to heavy set women with dark hair, plain looking...yes he likes dark hair BUT he preys on the heavy set becuase they are easy targets for him to lure. He is a tall, dark haired and handsome guy...and chooses heavy set woman becuase he feels they would be head over heels happy that a man like him would show interest in them!!! They fall for him and his charms and he usually gets them in his place or he in theirs by the first or second time seeing them! All he is after is SEX and attention..ego boosting. He doesnt go for the thin girls becuase he stands a good chance of them rejecting him, he is balding on top (and always wears a ballcap to hide it)...he hasnt had a heavy one reject him yet that I have found out about!!!

Update..just found him in bed with another woman that he JUST met and went on one date with!!! Doesnt say much for HER either!!! Had to drop off my son at his place and he was NOT ALONE! Of course he didnt tell this woman any truth about him or what happended with our marriage! he was very vague and just said "we had troubles all throughout our marriage and towards the end I was dating". So with that, he leaves out very key info!!! That the troubles we had were HIS addictions! He was not missing out on anything with me...he was the first to admit ath our relationship and marriage was perfect with the exception of his addictive impulses!!! So ladies beware!! He does not and will not disclose any truthful info that would get you to decide to not see him!
and if you do see him...dont think your the only one! he has many!

Doesnt answer his cell?? He's with someone else and doesnt want to talk to you in front of them...will call you back when he gets into a bathroom or something..listen for the ecko or signs that he's outside..somewhere away from teh other woman he's with at that time....he will lie!

[Darln766]

I cannot EDIT the original post but I need to clarify and make things more clear. Posts are awaiting deletion for being duplicates but until then I wanted to clear some things up that were said. He was also on Plentyoffish as bill_billy and deleted his acct after a woman contacted him and told him she read alot of bad things about him and he found out he was on this site. He will probably be back online again on sites using different names/towns. If I sound 'bitter' in my post well WHO isn't bitter when their husband who they loved unconditionally, trusted, have a family with and had the dream of growing old with has been living a different life behind your back? I'm not bitter, just trying to 'help' other unsuspecting, trusting women out there to not go through the deceivment/heartbreak me and my children did. To this day he admits if it weren’t for his problems/addictions we had a GREAT marriage and there were no complaints about me so don't let him try to fool you into thinking we weren’t a good match (that’s just a brief way of giving you an explanation without having to get into the REAL reason we are not together anymore – his addictions/behaviors). With his problems, no one would be a good match unless you don't care that he's chatting & meeting other women and lying to you. If my postings sound mean, they are not, just trying to get to the point. I am not a mean person at all. Just read up on NARSSISISTs and that will tell you everything to a T of what he’s like.

In my post I also mention he has 'many' what I mean with that is YOU will not be the only one, he will not admit it but he is open to chatting/meeting others. He wastes no time. He may not have a whole harem but he’s not wanting any commitments and that includes ‘dating’ commitments, he will date others, not just you BUT he won’t tell you that. Don't think you'll be the only one he's 'talking', chatting with or meeting. If he did it while being married, he’s going to do it while 'dating'. He's not sincere nor faithful. He knows about this site and knows he's here...so he will probably try to slow things down or change the way he acts to prove he's not as described here. He will play down his addictions and what really happened.......Nothing in here is exaggerated, it’s all true! Put us both to a lie detector test! He’ll get you to his apartment or he to yours. He was on adultfriendfinder sex dating site too – CLAIMS he wasn’t there for sex, just for dating and not everyone there is looking for sex. Come on, Everyone knows it’s a SEX dating site. This is the type of excuses/lies he’ll give to get out of something he’s caught in.
From what I know so far....he went to one woman’s house for a first meeting (stupid on her part too!), met one woman for coffee, then had her in his bed the next time (he was naked and claims they didn’t do anything, just sleeping), and now (according to him) another one from Plentyoffish drove and hour each way to HIS place for a first meeting on a weekday evening after only talking on the internet and phone, she has a 15 and 8 year old (what did she do with her 8 year old on a school night?) AND after her sister told her about this site and seeing my posting she STILL went to his place again - What is wrong with women and risky stupid behavior like that? Are they THAT desperate to go for someone who is on a cheaters website with a history and deep mental issues AND meet at his home or theirs so quickly? It's crazy, don't they have any respect for themselves, their safety and care for their kids? How do they know they would be coming back home to their kids after meeting a guy they don't know at his place or inviting him to theirs? They are crazy! Do they think this is all a lie? It's all true and NO speculations either. I have lived it and know how his mind works now. I have been observing and put all the pieces and his lies together compared to what I found that actually happened. I've caught him many times, I know his lies, games, manipulation tactics, how he works...hoping that this at least will help others to not fall into the game. He comes across as nice and sweet, he lies really good, is very convincing, has that boyish innocent looking face but he is NOT capable of a monogamous relationship, the family life, and is not honest. He lies even about the smallest things…i.e. I asked him where he got a plant and he said he bought it at the grocery store, went into how he liked it and thought it was cool. A year later when we were separating, I asked him again..this time he said his mother gave it to him (obviously forgot his lie a year ago) but WHY lie about something like that? He HAS to lie…it’s habit for him. This is what he does. He plays words too, the literal word game...if you don't ask, he won't tell. If a subject doesn’t come up or is not talked about – it’s open game for him to think you don’t care about it and he won’t bring it up and if you’re not very specific with your words and what you’re asking, he will give an answer and play the game of 'well you didn't ask specifically about that' or ‘you haven’t asked again since the last time’ ie. If asked ‘are you chatting with other people/women?’ he’ll answer NO. But in his mind, he’s not lying if he’s not chatting with other people/women (plural) as was (literally) asked, but is chatting with a woman! That’s an example of how he plays words and thinks and did actually answer that question that way. Just watch your backs and use your brains ladies. He will always be wanting attention of women anywhere, any way he can. He's even met women where he works (not just where he works now but other jobs) so he doesn't need the internet. He's also not being really picky...he'll 'befriend' someone who's not his type like the one with the two kids mentioned earlier (says she’s ‘eh’, bottom heavy, pear shaped, lighter hair (he’s more into brunettes, heavyset & shapely, If you got big boobs your IN just for that)! But hey she’s a woman showing him niceness and attention fulfilling his attention addiction for now. His porn addicted is not just the 'yeah' I have some sites I visit, normal guy thing...NO, he has spent excessive time watching videos, he actually can and HAS spent HOURS at a time and has done things that are really not normal and plain gross (I lived with him and found things!). I won’t go into what they are here but if you want to know, send me a message. After I brought the amount of time he spent on porn up he went to doing it when I wasn’t home or not in the same room. I hated to leave the house becuase I knew he'd hop on the computer. He really has deep issues and little patience with kids. But to get you to like him and trust him, he will put on a good act. He’s funny and very good at fooling and BSing. He did a lot of things I liked to do when we met…but after we moved in together (which was quick), that stopped and I noticed his excessive porn/sex addictions online and caught him emailing/meeting up with other women. He’s done this from day one and hasn’t stopped, he just ‘hid’ it better, it’s an embedded behavior/addiction. Said at one point that the family life & doing family things is not him, he’s just been pretending, trying to be the normal family man/husband but it doesn’t work for him. He’s a loner, no male friends only interested in females. He doesn’t like doing much but he’ll probably do things he’s not really into at first so you think he’s fun ….basically it’s just TV, hangout and sex. But do know..that’s all it is to him...he wants nothing 'heavy'. Heavy to him, means no commitment, doesn’t want to have to buy you things, worry about you or anything but hey, if sex happens, it happens but it doesn’t mean anything, don’t read into it. ..basically 'a friend with benefits', he won’t' come out and say that though.....he likes sex and attention (everyone does but this is excessive and an addiction), no emotional attachment although you may ‘feel’ there is but don’t be fooled, he just likes to touch and feel, hug and cuddle, no emotional attachment will grow with it either, he is emotionally unable to let anyone in and if he meets someone else while seeing/sleeping with you, just remember he covered himself by wanting nothing ‘heavy’, there’s no ‘dating’ commitment.
Again, I’m not doing this because I’m bitter, just hate to see someone else get fooled and go through the emotional turmoil he’s put me, his ex and our kids through. Even though he does have ‘odd’ behaviors and idiosyncrasy’s I did love him unconditionally! Just couldn’t take the deceivment/lies anymore after this last time. He’s not going to change…not for anyone. You won’t change him. Take Care! Feel free to message me if you have questions.

[Darln766]

[Darln766]

17mar09

[snicklebunny]

I discovered this site about a month ago, and have been agonizing about posting here. I feel stupid, embarrassed and ashamed, but I see it would be a public service that this man be put in his place.

He discoverd me a few years ago through profile searching on Yahoo Messenger. We chatted and got along well, commiserated about our marriages. Time went on and I was separating from my husband and I thought he was separated/separating from his wife. I would have never knowingly been with a married man... but I now know that when a man says he is separated... RUN the other way.

I was so preoccupied with my marriage coming apart that when I met this man on-line, he seemed to fit exactly what I was missing in my life. We chatted about everything, I thought he was being honest with me, I asked a lot of direct questions and he gave me straight answers(or so I thought). I now also realize from reading the posts here about him that its all part of his game... I was sooooo played, and for so long too. I actually cared for and worried over this man, boy was I stupid.

I really hope that who ever reads this decides that he is a bad choice and that he really has no care for anyone else. I was so blind to everything, and naive too, wow to admit that here ugh

I have learned alot in the past 4 years sice my separation. Women have to be careful about who they pick and date. I wish at the time I was a little more wise and if hindsight was 20/20 I would have avoided this smooth talker lilke the plague. There is so much more I could say, but it is really tough for me to write this... I am just proud of myself that I got this out, and if anyone has questions about this 'man' I will answer honestly and truthfully... I DEFFINITELY want to save someone else from feeling the way I do right now.

[Darln766]

http://dontdatehimgirl.com/forum/forgiveness-and-exactly-what-that-means-wake-up-ladies-t2325.html

[surfdog]

My sister is involved with this man, who is telling her to stay away from this site!!! I warned her about him being on here, posted by his ex wife. She will not listen to me, and I think she is setting herself up for a big downfall!!! All she talks about is how nice, sweet, affectionate, loving he is!!! Give me a break...he hasn't even taken her out anywhere!!! She goes to his place, until he has to get his son off the bus, if that's even true, and he has been to her house.

She needs to be warned about this man!!!

[Darln766]

inbox:roll:

[Darln766]

see m.c.

[Darln766]

m.c.

[surfdog]

I take back everything that was said about my sister. I want to delete the prior post that was put on here about her. She is VERY upset that I put anything on here to begin with. I shouldve never did it behind her back. She has feelings for this man, and I had no business putting her personal life into this website like his ex. There are two sides to every story, and all I've read here is the negative on this man, and I haven't met him. Ladies, stop being bitter and get on with your lives!!! We are all adults here and should start acting like one. Leave this couple alone and let them figure it out for themselves. Whats done is done and in the past, let him and my sister have a chance, they both deserve it.

[Darln766]

really sorry to hear that. No bitterness, just stating facts. She will find out for herself. Good luck!

[snicklebunny]

She is gonna give him her whole heart, and it will be stomped on and thrown away. There is no emotion with him, she will feel like there is, but there isn't.

Was just trying to warm his potential victims.

Good luck, you/she is gonna need it.

PS: I AM NOT HIS EX, I AM THE WOMAN HE TURNED INTO HIS MISTRESS, A TITLE I NEVER WOULD HAVE WILLINGLY WANTED. I DID NOT WRECK HIS HOME, HE DID THAT ALL BY HIMSELF.