What to do?, What to do?

lovehonourobey · Joined: 06 Jun 2007 Posts: 0

Hypothetically Speaking:

If one were an engaged girl for 1 long time to one man whom she loved.

If she had a crush on her fiancees best friend.

It more than likely wasn't mutual but who knows right?

If she couldnt sleep at night cause for some reason he was all she could think off..

WHAT SHOULD SHE DO??

She is going nuts...

Hypothetically Speaking.........

THANK YOU ALL FOR GREAT and UNDERSTANDING advice.

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

I agree with Found. Hypothetically speaking, she is crushing on a best friend? That means she isn't ready to settle down. We all develop attractions for people, but when you can't sleep because of it, it has gone beyond a crush. Here is another dilema, she can't date the best friend even if she ends her engagement. Some things just are not done. Hypothetically speaking, she would destroy their relationship. Men don't give out engagement rings to little whores whom they don't love. The fiancee would feel betrayed not only by his girl, but his best friend too. Losing his girl AND his best friend? Have a heart.

Foundthebestman · Joined: 03 May 2007 Posts: 21

True, true.......... Can't break off the engagement and date the friend. That's on the NO, NO list. Best thing to do is NOT get into this marriage because she's not ready. Even if she tried getting married it would most likely lead to divorce. She's still got other guys on her mind. Or snap out of it and focus on what's going on with her and her fiance and leave others out of the picture until they decide what they are going to do. In the end though, the guys friend is off limits.

p.stevens · Joined: 12 Apr 2007 Posts: 0

Do NOT go forward with the marriage. If this person were having thoughts and feelings about the fiancee's best friend before the wedding, it could be a subconscious way of trying to back out and find some sort of escape route.