why did he leave.

classyfast · Joined: 01 Jun 2007 Posts: 0

i was with this guy for a lil bit and every thing seemed to be good.the all of a sudden he just left. no explaination noecuses no nothing he just left. i was pregnant i found out with his child. well for some reason he hates me so much he turned his back on his first child. his daughter dont even know him. he,s a dead beat dad. whould not even look at his child in court. i dont know what whent wrong cause every thing was good and then he just left. im clueless.

cherylcelinaw · Joined: 16 Jun 2006 Posts: 2

He left because you got pregnant. Did you ask him if he wanted children and he probably didnt. Why do you women refuse to use protection and now your in this situation and cant get out of it. Get an abortion and move on with your life.

toots2375 · Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 0

Did he leave before or after you found out you were pregnant? Regardless. I am not a proponent of abortion. WHatever you do, think long and hard about it, and PLEASE, your next relationship, don't have sex with him until you KNOW what you are commiting to. Meaning, if you are not ready to die of AIDS< don't have sex, if you are NOT ready for an STD, don't have sex, if you are not ready to be the mother of his child, DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!!!

Foundthebestman · Joined: 03 May 2007 Posts: 21

Simple, he left because he got scared. You both acted irresponsible by jumping in the sack too soon and with no protection. He's not ready for a kid but didn't think about using protection, now he'll have 18 years to think about. You on the other hand should not worry about YOU now and why he left you. Hope to God for your baby's sake that he comes around to be a part of her life at least. YOU need to think about you baby now. You don't really have time for men now so don't worry about.