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Question:
Hello ! Lately I've been having the feeling of wanting to have sex with someone other than my husband. See I got married when I was 21 years of age and I lost my virginity to my husband (about a year before we got married) and he's the only guy I've ever been with.
Now I'm 25 years of age, young, in best shape of my life, and Im curious on how it feels to be with another man other than my husband. We don't have any children yet I'm waiting to finish school plus I'm not ready to settle down yet with kids maybe later.
I just don't want him to find out my intentions and if he did at least there is now children that are going to be affected. I'm not quite sure what to do, because I know it's wrong. Advice!
Wondering 02 April, 2009 - 20:24
Wondering 02 April, 2009 - 20:24
Answers:
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You obviously married very young, before you got the chance to explore and develop emotionally. It's okay. You and your husband need to talk to each other about what you're feeling. Trying to hide it from him isn't going to work. You don't want to do anything behind his back because at the end of the day, you want to remain friends if or when you part ways. His life is going to be affected by your decisions to be with other men. At the end of the day, if that's waht you want to do, make sure you do the right thing and tell your husband and get divorced before you do anything. Good luck!
Don't hide your intentions from your husband. Just divorce him and go and do whatever it is you want to do. It's going to be easier for everyone involved if you do end your marriage the right way!
Girlfriend! Don't even get me started! You clearly do not want to be with your husband, so let him go so you can see what other men have to offer!