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Question:
Hi guys! Okay, here's my problem. I'm getting back into the dating scene after an almost 10 year marriage. One of the big things I run into on every day is who should pay. My guys friends tell me that unless I plan on sleeping with a guy, I should pay for myself. But if I plan on sleeping with him, then I should let him pay. Sounds like prostitution to me - sex for free food.
I just don't get these new dating rules. What's the right thing to do?
Wondering 18 February, 2009 - 10:25
Wondering 18 February, 2009 - 10:25
Answers:
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Unfortunately, many men are pigs and still equate buying a woman dinner with sex. They think if they wine and dine you, you've got to do something for them. Namely, have sex. Don't fall for this. You should always pay for yourself or offer to go dutch so that there are no misunderstandings when it comes to what is expected of you after the meal.
Girl, it's going to take a lot more than a free meal for you to sleep with a guy. Too bad some of the jerks you've been out with don't know that. Always pay for yourself when you go out. That way, the dude you're on a date won't think you're going to end up in his bed at the end of the night.