Alison James

When a man raises his hand to a woman during an argument, he has crossed a very important line. And once he crosses that line, there's no going back. Chances are he will repeat this behavior again and again. A man either thinks it is acceptable to hit or slap a women or he doesn't. There's no middle ground here. And little incidents of slapping or pushing or verbal abuse always escalate as time goes on. So congratulate yourself for getting out of the relationship and don't look back.

The Average Guy

If not, never take him back. You will show that you are weak and that he can kick your *** and get away with it. If you have children with him, he may hit them. The only way I would suggest seeing him again is if he has gone to therapy or is on medication. Would you trust a dog that bites you?

Sonia Torretto

I have been in your position. I was in an abusive relationship for years. My self-esteem was so low that I thought I couldn't live without him and that I would never find anyone else. Instead of bolting from the relationship, I took it upon myself and convinced myself that I was the one to blame for his actions. A cycle of violence that lasted nearly three years started when he slapped me across the face in an argument. Learn from my mistakes! I don't care how much you love this guy, do not take him back. You will end up battered, bruised and having to undergo years of therapy to untangle the emotions scars left by such abuse. Also, if you are currently a victim of domestic violence, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE.