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Question:
I dated this guy and I thought he cared about me but he only used me. After a few months, he started dating a lady that was 20 years younger than him. But he still wanted to have sex with me so I let him for a while because I cared for him. I cooked for him, cleaned his place and washed his clothes, but in the end he still didn't stay. What did I do wrong?
-- WONDERING, Memphis
Wondering 22 June, 2009 - 10:47
Wondering 22 June, 2009 - 10:47
Answers:
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You didn't do anything wrong! This guy wanted to have his cake and eat it too. I suspect the woman that was older than him was also taking care of him. Stay away from this guy and move on with your life!
The question isn't what you did wrong, but what he did wrong. He used you, then left you for a woman 20 years older, but still wanted to have sex with you. How unbelievably ridiculous does that sound? It seems like you have issues with your self-esteem, which you must address immediately either through counseling or therapy. You did everything you could for this guy and he didn't appreciate it and took advantage of you. Stop blaming yourself for the end of this relationship and realize that you've been given a new lease on your dating life. Now it's time to get your self-esteem in check before you hit the dating scene again!
Girl, please! This guy is a *** who did indeed use you. Make sure it doesn't happen again by getting some help for you low self-esteem. That's what's causing you to gravitate toward these morons you've been dating!