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I just got married a few months ago. My new husband and my best friend are always at odds with each other. She doesn't like the things he does and he can't stand her in any way. Now, my husband is saying it's either her or him. I've got to choose. What should I do?
Wondering 22 July, 2007 - 00:00
Wondering 22 July, 2007 - 00:00
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now that you're married. That's only natural. Also, if she's always finding fault with and criticizing your husband, she should understand that you're not going to want to be around that. You want a BFF that's going to support you. By dissing your hubby, she's dissing you and your judgement. I say tell your BFF and your hubby to chill out. You may even want to get you, your hubby and your BFF together to sort out whatever your problems are. Go for it, girl!
You're not going to have a peaceful, healthy marriage if you are always dealing with the feud between your husband and your BFF. I don't know why these two hate each other's guts, but you took vows and you owe it to your husband to choose him. I think once you put your foot down with your BFF and you tell her to respect your marriage, she'll get it and act accordingly, so it won't be too long before you guys are back on solid ground.