Kerry Gray - The Love Doctor

Men can have a sexual relationship without wanting to be with you forever. Time and experience have taught them that if they act like the man of your dreams, they will be more successful at getting you into bed. It did work, so you can't fault him for the nature of his biology.

Sonia Torretto

Did he just pretend that it was just so great and that you had so much in common just to get you in bed? Probably not. He may have just had a couple of months to kill and you were fun and 'did it for him'. When he consummated it - .it's on to the next one. Or He could have found another task that was more interesting to him, like, who knows, flying lessons or another girl or fishing. But, the bottom line is - it wasn't nice. So why even care? I know, it's the attachment that we form, especially when we sleep with someone. But, geeze, do you really want to find out why? He's a *** if he isn't returning your calls because he just doesn't feel like it and a coward if his reason revolves around being scared or not ready etc. Either way, it's not honest and honesty is one of those foundation things that make a relationship work. He doesn't seem like relationship material.

The Average Guy

But, I have seen men who will overlook things they don't like about the woman. Then when they start sleeping together, the man feels as if he has reached his goal and the things he overlooked become interlorable. I would move on. There is nothing else you can do because you can't control this man. Therefore, go forward and try not to make the same mistake again.

Alison James

and focus on enjoying your life again. Try to meet some new people and have fun with your friends. If the guy is worthy of your time, he'll be back. If he doesn't come back, consider yourself lucky that you learned early on that he's not right for you. And the next time you meet a guy you like, keep the lessons from this experience in mind. Remember that men and women don't always view sex in the same way. For men, intimacy is part of the 'getting to know you process.' A man might care about a woman when he decides to sleep with her but that doesn't mean he's committed to her. That's why it is important for women to pace the relationship and make sure it has a solid foundation of trust and friendship before they become intimate with men.