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Question:
I was with a man for 4 years, he was caught cheating and he begged me to please take him back. I did. I know it was dumb.
A few months later he slept with my sister. I left and was not turning back. He begged and said he would do anything. I felt he was a cheat and a player. So I told him if we moved in together and he had to change his number I would consider working stuff out. I NEVER THOUGHT HE WOULD AGREE. He did. and I really really thought maybe he did love me and was going to change. Long story short. He didn't. During that time, we adopted a son. Our son is 6 months old and he left when he was 2 months old. Still fresh and tender in my heart. He still texts and calls. Sometimes we talk about getting back together sometimes he is mean and ugly towards me. I am so confused. He left one week before our wedding. I feel so stupid because I know I shouldn't love him but I do. I pray every single night to forget him. But I still don't. I have a son now. We were supposed to do this together, not for me to be a single mother! What should I do?
-- Trying to Get Over Him
Wondering 28 July, 2009 - 12:10
Wondering 28 July, 2009 - 12:10
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Dear Trying, The first thing you have to do is cut all ties with this man. Why do you let someone like that into your life. He's the type of *** that gives all men - even the good ones, a bad name. I'm a guy and I can tell you that this man is never going to marry you, help you raise your son or do anything at all for that matter. He's views you as easy, someone who will let him back in as long as he can come up with a good reason. Here's a good reason for you to stay away from him - the well-being of you and your son. Don't take his calls, don't return his texts, don't respond to anything he does. This guy is a cheater and he's not going to stop doing it anytime soon. For the sake of your son and yourself, ditch this guy ASAP!
Girl, please! This guy is a cheater, liar and a user. You are so much better than that! Your son is so much better than that! What the heck are you doing even giving this loser the time of day?!!! Cut off all contact and focus on you and your son. It's just that simple!