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I'm a guy and I think this website is a great way for men and women to learn about each other. I have a dating problem and I'd like to get the Love Panel's take on it. I met a girl who just started working at my job. I'm single and I found her attractive, so I asked her out. She said yes and we made plans to go out later in the week. Then all of the sudden the day before the date, she cancelled. I later found out that one of the girls at my job who I'd gone out on a few dates with a couple of years ago told her that I wasn't really dating material. She said that although I was a nice guy, I had a wandering eye. I do look at women, but never in a rude way, so I don't know why the other girl said I was always looking at other women. What should I do about this? Is it hopeless or do I have a chance at dating this girl?
Wondering 09 September, 2007 - 00:00
Wondering 09 September, 2007 - 00:00
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think you have a wandering eye problem, but you may not see yourself doing it. The other girl that you dated before at work says you do. The best thing to do in this situation is to take a poll of your former girlfriends. Ask them if you have a wandering eye. If two or more of them say you do, I would work on the problem if I were you. It might be something you don't even realize you're doing. You could always go to the girl you had a date with and explain things to her from your point of view. But ultimately, it's up to her to decide whether or not she wants to date you.
other women. It's something they really don't like. I agree that it might be something you don't even know you're doing, but if you're getting complaints about it, it's probably something you want to take a look at. With the girl you had a date with, I'd get creative. Tell her that you heard what the other girl said and that you're taking steps to work on the problem. Tell her you'd like to contact her in a few weeks when you've had the chance to work through it. She's going to think you're a gentleman and will admire your approach - honest and sincere.