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I've been in a relationship with the father of my children for 11 yrs now. Just recently a woman has been calling his phone so much that I've even memorized the number, when she calls and I answer she hangs up on me.
I asked him who she is and he say's that she's just a friend , and that I need to trust him more. He comes home late on weekends and I've found condoms in his car which he says are his friend's. It's like he always tries to make it seem like it's my fault. At this point I don't know what to believe and what I should do. -- CONFUSED
Wondering 09 September, 2008 - 17:42
Wondering 09 September, 2008 - 17:42
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Hey Confused, This man is lying to you. I would bet my entire emergency stash of Godiva chocolate bars that the woman who called your man's phone is not just a friend. If she were just a friend, she would have no problem chatting with you and then asking to speak to your man. Instead, she hangs up, like a girl with a grunge or something to hide. Do this - don't trust your man, trust me and get the hell out of this relationship while you can. You're being cheated on right under your nose!
I must agree with Queer Eye on this one. The condoms you found in the car aren't his friends. Why the hell would the friend keep condoms in your man's car? Doesn't he have his own car? Or a drawer at home? You are being played by this guy. There's just no other way to say it. Sorry!
I know it's hard to face what you suspect in your heart - the possibility that your man, the father of your children whom you've had a relationship with for 11 years could be cheating on you. I'm going to go with Queer Eye and Average Guy on this one. From what you've written, I think there's a good chance your baby's father is committing infidelity every time he walks out the door!