Alison James

Most men have a kinky side and a few bizarre fantasies, so your boyfriend is not an alien even though he might seem like one right now. The two of you don't have to agree on everything, but he should respect your views even if they are different than his. So if you've told him this type of 'relationship spice' is not for you, and he keeps pressuring you anyway, you have a serious problem on your hands. Never stay with a man who doesn't respect your boundaries. If, however, he isn't pressuring you, you have to ask different questions: Does the fact that he even has this interest bother you? Does it change your view of him? Can you still respect him? If you can't respect him because of his sleazy fetish, you have no choice but to give him the boot.

Sonia Torretto

There are a couple of things that may be going on with your man. One, he's bored in the relationship and wants to spice things up. It happens. I know there's probably been quite a few times that you've been bored in your relationship, right? Two, he may want to indulge his wandering eye, but respects you and would feel bad going to a strip club alone or with just the guys. If he goes with you, he reasons, it's not that bad. Your challenge is to decide what you want to do. Sure, he wants to wisk you off to the nearest sleaze den, but are you willing to go? That, my dear, is the question. Good luck!

The Average Guy

Wouldn't you rather go with him than have him go with the guys? There is nothing wrong with a woman going to a strip club with her guy. It's fun. I've done it with my woman. Believe me; guys don't leer at the dancers. He's going to be concentrating on you. Try it. He is telling you that your relationship needs spice. Believe him!