Alison James

when he says spice things up (and he's not talking about sprinkling a little parsley and thyme on the sheets). Try to get him to tell you what he's thinking. If he's reluctant to open up, you talk first. Tell him about all those crazy thoughts you have and fun things you would love to do. If the conversation still doesn't flow, pick up a book on fantasies and tell him you want to try acting them out. You might end up having the most passionate night of your life, but even if you don't, you'll at least get a few good laughs out of it.

Sonia Torretto

Try some erotica reading or viewing material. There are all kinds of great toys, vibrators, etc. on the market that can put the zing back in your love life. Ladies, try dressing up in sexy lingerie for your man. That's sure to please!

The Average Guy

You can watch adult movies together, role play, dirty talk, etc. The list is as longs as your imagination. People forget that the mind is the biggest sex organ. Expand your thinking and let yourself go. Give yourself to him. Keep yourself in shape also. Not so much for him but for yourself. When you see yourself as a beautiful, sexy woman, you will be open to more.