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How to Keep Your Guy on His Toes!
Girls, what attracts a guy to you in the first place? It is usually your sharp sense of humor, wit and style. Guys like girls who can dish it out, spar with them verbally and banter back and forth.

This is how men relate to each other, so they really pick up on girls who can hold their own. When boys are growing up, they use conversation with each other to find their place in the world and to know where they stand in the masculine pecking order.

On the playground, the insults fly back and forth and the first boy to cry is the loser. You don't have to be loud and aggressive and use bad language to stand out among the boys. Practice some lines that kill so you will be ready.

When you have the opportunity to deliver a good one-liner, pause and take a deep breath, slowly lift one eyebrow and cock your head, then give it your best shot. Smile and strut away; work it, baby, work it! Guys will stand in line to go out with a girl who can banter back and forth with them. A girl like that sends the message that she is dangerous, and he might not be able to keep up with this one!

Men love danger and a challenge. You can be one by dropping him to his knees and putting him in his place with some great one-liners. -- Kerry L. Gray, kerry@dontdatehimgirl.com