3 Red Flags All Guys Look For in the Women They Date
First, he will always be looking for clues about your future together. If he loves camping and you say you hate it, he will picture life himself never going camping again.
If you want him to go shopping one day instead of playing sports with the guys, he will imagine that he will never have a day
out with the boys again. Try to appear open to all of his interests. Don't say "never"
about something that is near and dear to his heart. His time and his activities should be his own, or he will feel like his freedom is slipping away just because he is dating you.
Another thing your will man will listen for are hints that you want an extravagant lifestyle, maybe one that he cannot afford. If you seem high maintenance and are always talking about expensive things, he will worry that he simply cannot afford you. If you talk about not working and staying home with the kids, while he supports you, he might look for the first exit out. Even if you like nice things and picture your future full
of luxuries, vacation homes and dream trips, keep a lid on it. Do not scare him away
with worries that he cannot give you the life you want.
The last big thing your new guy will constantly look for are signs that you will go
crazy on him. In the beginning, sure, you are cool about him going out with his friends and you laugh when he tells you about the lap dance he got at the bachelor party. Some girls change overnight, though, and he knows it. If a girl suddenly gets suspicious about something, her reason seems to fly out the window. Some girls suddenly go psycho and start following guys, going through their cell phones, hacking into their email and taking their stuff. If you suddenly find yourself going off the deep end, take a deep breath
and get out of town with your girlfriends.
Do not lose a new good relationship because you show him signs that you might get crazy. Guys want their girls to stay normal, day after day, all the time. The first time you go nuts is the first time he thinks about dumping you.
Have fun with your new man, but remember: these are the big red flags he will be on the
look out for!
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
KerryLGray@gmail.com
If you want him to go shopping one day instead of playing sports with the guys, he will imagine that he will never have a day
out with the boys again. Try to appear open to all of his interests. Don't say "never"
about something that is near and dear to his heart. His time and his activities should be his own, or he will feel like his freedom is slipping away just because he is dating you.
Another thing your will man will listen for are hints that you want an extravagant lifestyle, maybe one that he cannot afford. If you seem high maintenance and are always talking about expensive things, he will worry that he simply cannot afford you. If you talk about not working and staying home with the kids, while he supports you, he might look for the first exit out. Even if you like nice things and picture your future full
of luxuries, vacation homes and dream trips, keep a lid on it. Do not scare him away
with worries that he cannot give you the life you want.
The last big thing your new guy will constantly look for are signs that you will go
crazy on him. In the beginning, sure, you are cool about him going out with his friends and you laugh when he tells you about the lap dance he got at the bachelor party. Some girls change overnight, though, and he knows it. If a girl suddenly gets suspicious about something, her reason seems to fly out the window. Some girls suddenly go psycho and start following guys, going through their cell phones, hacking into their email and taking their stuff. If you suddenly find yourself going off the deep end, take a deep breath
and get out of town with your girlfriends.
Do not lose a new good relationship because you show him signs that you might get crazy. Guys want their girls to stay normal, day after day, all the time. The first time you go nuts is the first time he thinks about dumping you.
Have fun with your new man, but remember: these are the big red flags he will be on the
look out for!
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
KerryLGray@gmail.com
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