3 Ways To Decide If a Guy Deserves a Second Chance
Everyone makes mistakes – men and women alike. But how do you know when you should give a guy you're dating a second chance? Here are 3 ways you can tell if a guy is worthy!
1. He's apologetic…really apologetic. If you're guy is walking around hanging his head, apologizing for whatever it is he did wrong, he's probably really sorry and deserves a second chance. Keep in mind that if you give a guy a second chance, it's usually a one-time thing. He doesn't get a second chance over and over again if he continues his bad behavior.
2. He's learned from his mistakes. Let's say you've caught your guy looking at porn on his computer. You've confronted him and he knows how much this upsets you so he deletes all references of it from his computer and vows not to do it again. He deserves a second chance to show that he's changed his behavior.
3. He realizes why you were upset with him. Sometimes, the hardest part of having drama with your guy is that he doesn't understand your point of view. If your guy has done something wrong and he understands the reason why you were upset or hurt, give him a second chance. He's probably not going to do it again.
Ultimately, however, it's up to you if you decide to give your guy a second chance. Go with your gut and trust your intuition and you should be just fine! -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@dontdatehimgirl.com.
1. He's apologetic…really apologetic. If you're guy is walking around hanging his head, apologizing for whatever it is he did wrong, he's probably really sorry and deserves a second chance. Keep in mind that if you give a guy a second chance, it's usually a one-time thing. He doesn't get a second chance over and over again if he continues his bad behavior.
2. He's learned from his mistakes. Let's say you've caught your guy looking at porn on his computer. You've confronted him and he knows how much this upsets you so he deletes all references of it from his computer and vows not to do it again. He deserves a second chance to show that he's changed his behavior.
3. He realizes why you were upset with him. Sometimes, the hardest part of having drama with your guy is that he doesn't understand your point of view. If your guy has done something wrong and he understands the reason why you were upset or hurt, give him a second chance. He's probably not going to do it again.
Ultimately, however, it's up to you if you decide to give your guy a second chance. Go with your gut and trust your intuition and you should be just fine! -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@dontdatehimgirl.com.
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