Are You Waiting and Waiting For an Unavailable Guy?
Does this scenario sound familiar ladies? Having you ever been home alone and had the following thoughts? -
What am I doing just sitting at home? Am I waiting and waiting for him to call or to fit me into his plans? What do I do?
Should I get on the internet and see what I can find out about him? Should I wait by the phone for him to call or watch another Lifetime movie? Does this sound like YOU?
If so, the answer to all of the above questions is NO. Do not stay at home because he is busy. Get on that phone and call up some of your girlfriends. There is a big exciting world of things to do out there and you should be part of it. Do not wait for a man to make your life complete!
It is time to get out in the world and see what has changed since you began that relationship. The waiting is over and now it is time to get moving, but how do you do that?
Here are some great ideas for starters.
Check out your local YWCA. This place is always full of activities from swimming to swing dance lessons. Another good thing is there are men there also, and the women there usually have single men to hook up with new partners.
Check with your church and see what groups are available like the Under 30's or Over 40's or just divorced groups. There might be people that get together and go bowling or to see a movie. If there is not one then maybe you can get one started.
The people you work with are a good place to look for someone to go and do things with.
Reconnect with your girlfriends whom you put on the shelf when you started the relationship. Check back in with family members. Now is a good time to see them.
Get the girls together and go to the movies. If you are tight on money then make it movie night at your place. Host a game night where everyone brings a board game to play. Go with the girls to the mall for an ice cream cone and people watching. Do not make fun of any people but just check out what they are doing and how the couples are interacting. How are the teenagers different from when you were a teen?
With the holidays coming get together and make cookies for a nursing home or a daycare center. Join a singing group and go caroling. Help the senior citizen home decorate. Volunteer at local shelters and food pantries. There are single men who are lonely doing these things, too! Take a short weekend trip with a social group..
The point is there is no reason to be alone. The main thing to do is not sit around waiting for him to realize that you are the one he has been waiting for all of his life. Get moving!
-- Pat in the Pink for DontDateHimGirl.com
What am I doing just sitting at home? Am I waiting and waiting for him to call or to fit me into his plans? What do I do?
Should I get on the internet and see what I can find out about him? Should I wait by the phone for him to call or watch another Lifetime movie? Does this sound like YOU?
If so, the answer to all of the above questions is NO. Do not stay at home because he is busy. Get on that phone and call up some of your girlfriends. There is a big exciting world of things to do out there and you should be part of it. Do not wait for a man to make your life complete!
It is time to get out in the world and see what has changed since you began that relationship. The waiting is over and now it is time to get moving, but how do you do that?
Here are some great ideas for starters.
Check out your local YWCA. This place is always full of activities from swimming to swing dance lessons. Another good thing is there are men there also, and the women there usually have single men to hook up with new partners.
Check with your church and see what groups are available like the Under 30's or Over 40's or just divorced groups. There might be people that get together and go bowling or to see a movie. If there is not one then maybe you can get one started.
The people you work with are a good place to look for someone to go and do things with.
Reconnect with your girlfriends whom you put on the shelf when you started the relationship. Check back in with family members. Now is a good time to see them.
Get the girls together and go to the movies. If you are tight on money then make it movie night at your place. Host a game night where everyone brings a board game to play. Go with the girls to the mall for an ice cream cone and people watching. Do not make fun of any people but just check out what they are doing and how the couples are interacting. How are the teenagers different from when you were a teen?
With the holidays coming get together and make cookies for a nursing home or a daycare center. Join a singing group and go caroling. Help the senior citizen home decorate. Volunteer at local shelters and food pantries. There are single men who are lonely doing these things, too! Take a short weekend trip with a social group..
The point is there is no reason to be alone. The main thing to do is not sit around waiting for him to realize that you are the one he has been waiting for all of his life. Get moving!
-- Pat in the Pink for DontDateHimGirl.com
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