All the Girls Are Doing It. Why Shouldn't You Sleep With Him?
It is easier than ever for a guy to find a girl willing to have sex, even if they are not in a relationship. Casual sex is raging across the nation. Many girls think if they do not sleep with the guy, they will lose him.
Girls are afraid he will move on to the next girl who will. The truth is, sleeping with him casually means he will almost certainly
move on to the next girl, but more about that later.
There is one big really good fantastic and surprising reason for a girl not to sleep with a guy too soon and too casually. Smart girls who know this fact, understand it and make their choices based on it will have the
best chance of scoring a great guy and a long term relationship with marriage.
Sleeping with a guy creates deep, strong feelings of attachment in girls, even if the guy is a bad guy, and even if the guy is totally wrong for her. Girls are hard-wired to connect deeply with intense bonds of attachment to ANY and EVERY man they sleep with. This is because women are meant to nurture, nest, have the babies and take
care of their loved ones.
Evolution and biology have given girls all the tools they need to bond deeply with lasting
attachment to any man they sleep with. Unfortunately, these strong emotions and feelings of attachment are also created for bad guys, sleazy guys, liars, cheats, players, and guys who are totally wrong.
For girls, sleeping with any guy instantly creates that attachment and bond. Girls stand by their man, even the bad ones.
Being involved with a guy who is wrong for you is an emotional roller coaster full of heartache. You know you shouldn't, but you do. You know you should leave, but you can't. You know you should end it, but you don't. You put up with pain, misery, self-doubt, fear, and create a world for yourself where it is next to impossible to go to work, go to school, take care of yourself and achieve your goals.
Some guys are really bad players, liars, and cheaters, but if you sleep with them you will develop those same feelings of deep emotional attachment for them, just like you would for a good guy. Your hormones do not know the difference; they just attach to any man you sleep with.
This is the best reason not to sleep with a guy casually, before you get to really know him, and before you are in a committed, monogamous relationship or even married. Save yourself the heartache of deep attachment to guys who are wrong for you by not sleeping with them too soon. Save your strong emotional bonds for the man who has proven he is a good guy who is right for you.
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
Need personal advice on your love problem? Write Kerry, the Love Doctor, at KerryLGray@gmail.com for a fast, free response to your relationship questions.
Girls are afraid he will move on to the next girl who will. The truth is, sleeping with him casually means he will almost certainly
move on to the next girl, but more about that later.
There is one big really good fantastic and surprising reason for a girl not to sleep with a guy too soon and too casually. Smart girls who know this fact, understand it and make their choices based on it will have the
best chance of scoring a great guy and a long term relationship with marriage.
Sleeping with a guy creates deep, strong feelings of attachment in girls, even if the guy is a bad guy, and even if the guy is totally wrong for her. Girls are hard-wired to connect deeply with intense bonds of attachment to ANY and EVERY man they sleep with. This is because women are meant to nurture, nest, have the babies and take
care of their loved ones.
Evolution and biology have given girls all the tools they need to bond deeply with lasting
attachment to any man they sleep with. Unfortunately, these strong emotions and feelings of attachment are also created for bad guys, sleazy guys, liars, cheats, players, and guys who are totally wrong.
For girls, sleeping with any guy instantly creates that attachment and bond. Girls stand by their man, even the bad ones.
Being involved with a guy who is wrong for you is an emotional roller coaster full of heartache. You know you shouldn't, but you do. You know you should leave, but you can't. You know you should end it, but you don't. You put up with pain, misery, self-doubt, fear, and create a world for yourself where it is next to impossible to go to work, go to school, take care of yourself and achieve your goals.
Some guys are really bad players, liars, and cheaters, but if you sleep with them you will develop those same feelings of deep emotional attachment for them, just like you would for a good guy. Your hormones do not know the difference; they just attach to any man you sleep with.
This is the best reason not to sleep with a guy casually, before you get to really know him, and before you are in a committed, monogamous relationship or even married. Save yourself the heartache of deep attachment to guys who are wrong for you by not sleeping with them too soon. Save your strong emotional bonds for the man who has proven he is a good guy who is right for you.
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
Need personal advice on your love problem? Write Kerry, the Love Doctor, at KerryLGray@gmail.com for a fast, free response to your relationship questions.
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