Are You Really Your Guy's Only Squeeze?
Sometimes men will try to keep their options open as long as possible by seeing other girls on the side. Some guys will do this long after you have committed to being his only one.
The most obvious sign he is dating other girls is that he does not call very often, and waits
until the last minute to come up with plans to see you. Any man who is into totally into you will tie up your calendar and always ask for more dates ahead of time. He will be ringing your phone off the wall making sure the other guys are not taking up your time.
If he is always busy on weekends and can only see you during the week, you know for sure
he is doing the two-step with someone else on Friday and Saturday nights. Chances are good
he is telling her he is busy during the week while he sees you.
Make sure a guy is available all the time before you seriously go out with him. You don't want to spend a year of lonely weekends
before you figure it out.
If he only comes to your place and you never go to his, it means he is really not serious about you. He might want to hide evidence of other women at his house. He might actually be living with a girl he does not want you to know about. He could even be married. These days everybody has a cell phone and some people do not have home phones, so if he doesn't have a home phone number you cannot press that issue. If you do go to his place, however, and you see a phone, obviously a land line, and he has never given you the number, take that as a big red flag. Casually ask if you can have his home number for times when the cell phone does not work, and observe his reaction.
If he does not introduce you to his friends, and refuses to add you on MySpace or friend you on Facebook, this is a sign that there are other girls around. He doesn't want you around his friends in case one of them spills his secrets. He does not want you seeing pictures of other girls on his MySpace and Facebook, or reading comments. A good guy who is proud of you will want you at the top of his friends list, and will put up
pictures of the two of you together.
You might think you are rocking along in a great committed, exclusive relationship when all of a sudden his kissing technique, major makeout moves and style in the sack undergo a serious and dramatic change. Long time lovers mimic the same ways of kissing and making out. If all of a sudden the moves feel strange, it might be that he has been with someone else. Do not accuse, just open your eyes and watch for other signs.
What do you do when you feel your guy slipping away? Stay tuned for tips on how to stop the breakup!
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor.
The most obvious sign he is dating other girls is that he does not call very often, and waits
until the last minute to come up with plans to see you. Any man who is into totally into you will tie up your calendar and always ask for more dates ahead of time. He will be ringing your phone off the wall making sure the other guys are not taking up your time.
If he is always busy on weekends and can only see you during the week, you know for sure
he is doing the two-step with someone else on Friday and Saturday nights. Chances are good
he is telling her he is busy during the week while he sees you.
Make sure a guy is available all the time before you seriously go out with him. You don't want to spend a year of lonely weekends
before you figure it out.
If he only comes to your place and you never go to his, it means he is really not serious about you. He might want to hide evidence of other women at his house. He might actually be living with a girl he does not want you to know about. He could even be married. These days everybody has a cell phone and some people do not have home phones, so if he doesn't have a home phone number you cannot press that issue. If you do go to his place, however, and you see a phone, obviously a land line, and he has never given you the number, take that as a big red flag. Casually ask if you can have his home number for times when the cell phone does not work, and observe his reaction.
If he does not introduce you to his friends, and refuses to add you on MySpace or friend you on Facebook, this is a sign that there are other girls around. He doesn't want you around his friends in case one of them spills his secrets. He does not want you seeing pictures of other girls on his MySpace and Facebook, or reading comments. A good guy who is proud of you will want you at the top of his friends list, and will put up
pictures of the two of you together.
You might think you are rocking along in a great committed, exclusive relationship when all of a sudden his kissing technique, major makeout moves and style in the sack undergo a serious and dramatic change. Long time lovers mimic the same ways of kissing and making out. If all of a sudden the moves feel strange, it might be that he has been with someone else. Do not accuse, just open your eyes and watch for other signs.
What do you do when you feel your guy slipping away? Stay tuned for tips on how to stop the breakup!
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor.
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