Did Your Online Love Interest Call It Quits?
Is your heart broken over an online guy you never met?
Being brokenhearted over a breakup can be devastating. What if your broken heart is from an internet hookup that never produced a meeting? Ladies, get real! How can you be brokenhearted over someone you never met in person?
It is easy to get caught up in a whirlwind internet romance. But! An internet hookup relationship can not be real until the two people meet face to face. Yes, you can chat for hours online.
You can talk on the phone and send e-mails. You might gaze at his posted pictures for hours, but that is not reality. Reality is meeting, hopefully in a public place for your safety.
I can hear you now, saying, "Oh, he is so sweet and we really connect online." Those online connections draw you in, but they are not the real person. You might say "he is so understanding and he gets me," but again, these are just words. Reality is meeting and then being with that person on a regular basis.
To be brokenhearted over a relationship that did not result in a actual meet is kind of crazy. If there was a real interest, you would have met. If there was a true commitment to each other, you would have met. If there was "love" you would have met. Why are you broken hearted over someone you never met?
It is so easy to get drawn into the possibilities of a future with an online dream man. My advice is to get back online and meet another person. Meeting someone online is exciting. There are hundreds of adorable guys online, and there is someone for everyone. Cyberspace is a great place to introduce yourself to a lot of people.
The truth, though, is that it is not real until you meet him face to face. If a guy strings you along online, hang up on him. Go for another round. And remember, you have to kiss a lot of internet frogs before you get your online Prince.
-- Pat in the Pink
Being brokenhearted over a breakup can be devastating. What if your broken heart is from an internet hookup that never produced a meeting? Ladies, get real! How can you be brokenhearted over someone you never met in person?
It is easy to get caught up in a whirlwind internet romance. But! An internet hookup relationship can not be real until the two people meet face to face. Yes, you can chat for hours online.
You can talk on the phone and send e-mails. You might gaze at his posted pictures for hours, but that is not reality. Reality is meeting, hopefully in a public place for your safety.
I can hear you now, saying, "Oh, he is so sweet and we really connect online." Those online connections draw you in, but they are not the real person. You might say "he is so understanding and he gets me," but again, these are just words. Reality is meeting and then being with that person on a regular basis.
To be brokenhearted over a relationship that did not result in a actual meet is kind of crazy. If there was a real interest, you would have met. If there was a true commitment to each other, you would have met. If there was "love" you would have met. Why are you broken hearted over someone you never met?
It is so easy to get drawn into the possibilities of a future with an online dream man. My advice is to get back online and meet another person. Meeting someone online is exciting. There are hundreds of adorable guys online, and there is someone for everyone. Cyberspace is a great place to introduce yourself to a lot of people.
The truth, though, is that it is not real until you meet him face to face. If a guy strings you along online, hang up on him. Go for another round. And remember, you have to kiss a lot of internet frogs before you get your online Prince.
-- Pat in the Pink
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