Do Guys Ever Think Before They Cheat?
Dear DDHG Love Experts,
I just found out my boyfriend of six years has been cheating on me. I am so heartbroken, I can't even talk about it without crying. When I found out about it, at first he denied it.
Then, after a few days, he admitted it, but his excuse was that he couldn't control it and that it just happened. He promised not to do it again if I took him back, but I can't trust him anymore. What should I do? Can guys control their cheating?
-- CHEATED ON, Kansas
Dear Cheated On,
Yes, guys can control their cheating. Despite what he may tell you, your boyfriend knows right from wrong.
As far as getting back together with him, that's your call. But before you do, you should take a lot of time for yourself and figure out what YOU want, independent of him.
Is he ever going to stop cheating? Who knows? But what you need to be focused on now is you, not him. -- The Average Guy
I just found out my boyfriend of six years has been cheating on me. I am so heartbroken, I can't even talk about it without crying. When I found out about it, at first he denied it.
Then, after a few days, he admitted it, but his excuse was that he couldn't control it and that it just happened. He promised not to do it again if I took him back, but I can't trust him anymore. What should I do? Can guys control their cheating?
-- CHEATED ON, Kansas
Dear Cheated On,
Yes, guys can control their cheating. Despite what he may tell you, your boyfriend knows right from wrong.
As far as getting back together with him, that's your call. But before you do, you should take a lot of time for yourself and figure out what YOU want, independent of him.
Is he ever going to stop cheating? Who knows? But what you need to be focused on now is you, not him. -- The Average Guy
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