Don't Make a Guy a Priority, When You Are Just an Option in His Life
First, making someone your priority when you are only an option does not bring that person closer to you. It drives them away. Being the needy one in a relationship is no fun, and it is not attractive, either. We have all had an annoying person try to cling to us.
Remember how it made you feel? Creepy. You ended up feeling sorry for them, resenting them, and wondering why they just could not take the hint. If you make someone a priority when they do not treat you the same way, this is how you are making them feel. They just want to get away from you!
Set some boundaries for yourself. Do not shower someone with attention, gifts and time who is not doing the same for you. Do not go out of your way to do them favors, or try to show them some love. They won't be feeling it.
You will be more attractive to others when you do not "over do" it. We all know how it feels to be in love with someone new.
You want to do everything for them, and you can spend 24/7 trying to think of ways to attract their attention and earn their undying love. It is funny that it works this way, but it is true. The less you do, the more they will come to you.
Remember, do not make someone a priority when you are only an option!
Great advice from
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
KerryLGray@gmail.com
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Remember how it made you feel? Creepy. You ended up feeling sorry for them, resenting them, and wondering why they just could not take the hint. If you make someone a priority when they do not treat you the same way, this is how you are making them feel. They just want to get away from you!
Set some boundaries for yourself. Do not shower someone with attention, gifts and time who is not doing the same for you. Do not go out of your way to do them favors, or try to show them some love. They won't be feeling it.
You will be more attractive to others when you do not "over do" it. We all know how it feels to be in love with someone new.
You want to do everything for them, and you can spend 24/7 trying to think of ways to attract their attention and earn their undying love. It is funny that it works this way, but it is true. The less you do, the more they will come to you.
Remember, do not make someone a priority when you are only an option!
Great advice from
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
KerryLGray@gmail.com
Send us an Add on MySpace at http://www.myspace.com/officialdontdatehimgirl
All your friends will want to know "whatsup" when they see us on your MySpace!
Send us a Tweet on Twitter at OfficialDDHG, and coming soon, our new Facebook!
We can't wait to friend you all on fabulous Facebook! See You There!
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