Has Your Sex Life Gotten Boring? Spice it Up!
After you have been with a guy for a while, it is easy to let your hair down, kick back in that old t-shirt and those stained sweatpants, and let yourself go. After all, you don't play games, right?
You feel like he should love you just like you are. You think "this is the real me, and he can take me or leave me, right?" Wrong! Remember, once you are in a committed relationship, your sex life becomes his sex life. If you get lazy about it and do not go the extra mile just once in a while, he will feel like he is missing out.
Face it. It is the truth. Men are visual creatures. They like to look and they are easily stimulated with just their eyes. Women are not really that way, so it is easy to forget how much your guy likes to see you dressed up for the occasion. If your sex life has been down in the dumps, doing the same
old thing over and over again, revive it with a new outfit. It does not have to be expensive.
Discount stores have inexpensive lingerie in all colors and sizes. When you shop, occasionally throw something new into the cart so you will have a surprise for him when you want one. Men are not picky. He will love anything you put on as long as it is something new and different to him. Sure, he loves you just the way you are.
Of course, he thinks you are cute in those baggie boxer shorts and his big t-shirts. He does not mind that you wear them 95 percent of the time, but for that other 5 percent, he really does want to see something different.
Please, take our advice and do not blow it by talking about it with him. Do not force him to say how much he loves it when you dress up and then pick a fight with him over. Just do it. Throw on something sexy, then put on a little perfume and brush your hair. He will fall in love with you all over again. Put on some hose and high heels and he will again be your slave for life. Men are not that hard to please. It really is that easy.
While you are at it, you can score extra points if you leave the outfit on for a while afterward, say, an hour or so. You get real bonus points if you do a little housework while you are wearing it. He will be following you around the house just to watch you sweep and mop. Who says washing dishes and doing laundry can't be fun?
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
You feel like he should love you just like you are. You think "this is the real me, and he can take me or leave me, right?" Wrong! Remember, once you are in a committed relationship, your sex life becomes his sex life. If you get lazy about it and do not go the extra mile just once in a while, he will feel like he is missing out.
Face it. It is the truth. Men are visual creatures. They like to look and they are easily stimulated with just their eyes. Women are not really that way, so it is easy to forget how much your guy likes to see you dressed up for the occasion. If your sex life has been down in the dumps, doing the same
old thing over and over again, revive it with a new outfit. It does not have to be expensive.
Discount stores have inexpensive lingerie in all colors and sizes. When you shop, occasionally throw something new into the cart so you will have a surprise for him when you want one. Men are not picky. He will love anything you put on as long as it is something new and different to him. Sure, he loves you just the way you are.
Of course, he thinks you are cute in those baggie boxer shorts and his big t-shirts. He does not mind that you wear them 95 percent of the time, but for that other 5 percent, he really does want to see something different.
Please, take our advice and do not blow it by talking about it with him. Do not force him to say how much he loves it when you dress up and then pick a fight with him over. Just do it. Throw on something sexy, then put on a little perfume and brush your hair. He will fall in love with you all over again. Put on some hose and high heels and he will again be your slave for life. Men are not that hard to please. It really is that easy.
While you are at it, you can score extra points if you leave the outfit on for a while afterward, say, an hour or so. You get real bonus points if you do a little housework while you are wearing it. He will be following you around the house just to watch you sweep and mop. Who says washing dishes and doing laundry can't be fun?
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
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