How to Get Over an Unfaithful Guy and Get Happy
Q. I am new to this site, so I'm not quite sure how to begin this. I was happy in love with a man I thought to be honest, loving and caring. He even asked me to marry him. But that, it seems was where the trouble began.
I never thought he was cheating, until I found a suspicious picture or two. Then a few suspicious phone calls. I naturally worry, but I told myself I need to learn to trust. That was until I read the conversation he had with the other woman, and asked him about. Turns out he was sleeping with her.
Eventually, I learned to forgive, and forget a little. We ended up getting married regardless, which was a stupid decision on my part. He cheated on me again and again and again. He admitted to it 3 times, than after that just gave up. Our marriage lasted a year. It's rather unfortunate that it had to happen, but I wish he never would have gone through with getting married if he wasn't going to be faithful.
I only cared about making him happy, and doing things to please him, but he never felt the same way I suppose. It makes me wonder what I did wrong, or what made him do it. I know now though, it's not my fault he chose to do what he did. I tried my hardest, and if it didn't work out, then he just didn't deserve someone as loving as me. My question is, why do guys do this to women?
A. I'm so glad you were able to realize that this guy's behavior is a clear, telltale sign that he doesn't deserve you. You sound like a strong, intelligent woman with a good head on her shoulders. There are a lot of reasons why guys cheat or otherwise treat women badly in relationships. The bottom line is you're no longer with this man. You need to look at that as a great opportunity to start over and this time, find the guy that's right for you. No woman, who is trying to make a relationship work, deserves to be cheated on.
If you're trying to get over a guy who has cheated on you, there are three things you must do -
1. Don't communicate with your cheater. In order to heal after a break up, you've got to take time for yourself to think about what you really want out of a relationship with a man.
2. Make a list of the qualities you want to have in your next boyfriend, but be realistic. There are very few perfect men in the world!
3. Now look at your list. Now, at the bottom of it make a list of all the places you think you can meet a guy like the one on your list. Then, get out there and go find him! -- The Average Guy
I never thought he was cheating, until I found a suspicious picture or two. Then a few suspicious phone calls. I naturally worry, but I told myself I need to learn to trust. That was until I read the conversation he had with the other woman, and asked him about. Turns out he was sleeping with her.
Eventually, I learned to forgive, and forget a little. We ended up getting married regardless, which was a stupid decision on my part. He cheated on me again and again and again. He admitted to it 3 times, than after that just gave up. Our marriage lasted a year. It's rather unfortunate that it had to happen, but I wish he never would have gone through with getting married if he wasn't going to be faithful.
I only cared about making him happy, and doing things to please him, but he never felt the same way I suppose. It makes me wonder what I did wrong, or what made him do it. I know now though, it's not my fault he chose to do what he did. I tried my hardest, and if it didn't work out, then he just didn't deserve someone as loving as me. My question is, why do guys do this to women?
A. I'm so glad you were able to realize that this guy's behavior is a clear, telltale sign that he doesn't deserve you. You sound like a strong, intelligent woman with a good head on her shoulders. There are a lot of reasons why guys cheat or otherwise treat women badly in relationships. The bottom line is you're no longer with this man. You need to look at that as a great opportunity to start over and this time, find the guy that's right for you. No woman, who is trying to make a relationship work, deserves to be cheated on.
If you're trying to get over a guy who has cheated on you, there are three things you must do -
1. Don't communicate with your cheater. In order to heal after a break up, you've got to take time for yourself to think about what you really want out of a relationship with a man.
2. Make a list of the qualities you want to have in your next boyfriend, but be realistic. There are very few perfect men in the world!
3. Now look at your list. Now, at the bottom of it make a list of all the places you think you can meet a guy like the one on your list. Then, get out there and go find him! -- The Average Guy
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