Inside a Man's Mind - 5 Reasons Men Will Sleep With a Woman, But Won't Commit
Man women think that if they can sexually satisfy a man they've got it made and a commitment is right around the corner. Wrong! Check out the 5 reasons men will sleep with a woman, but won't commit.
1. It's all about the sex - some men want to have sex with a woman, but not necessarily make her his wife. "Just because a guy finds a woman sexually attractive doesn't mean he'll marry her," said DDHG contributor The Average Guy. "Men will pretty much have sex with any moderately attractive woman, even if she's annoying, obnoxious or loud, but he won't ever commit to her. Men save that for the one woman who really takes his breath away."
2. Some guys suck - some men don't give another thought to roping a woman in emotionally, having sex with, then cutting her loose when talk of commitment comes up. "It's not right," said Average Guy. "But unfortunately, lots of men do it."
3. Commitment is creepy - many men fear commitment, but they don't fear having non-commital sex. "Men don't have the same emotional attachment to sex that women do," said Average Guy. "But bring up the word commitment and watch the emotions fly."
4. Sex isn't about love - to many men, sex and love don't mix. In fact, they're not even in the same ball park. "Sex is merely a physical release for most men," said Average Guy. "Love doesn't necessarily come along with ejaculation."
5. Commitment could backfire - along with a general fear of commitment for men comes a fear of failure. "A lot of guys think what happens if I commit and it doesn't work," said Average Guy. "Guys like that would rather have sex, but forego the commitment part of it for as long as they can." -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@dontdatehimgirl.com
1. It's all about the sex - some men want to have sex with a woman, but not necessarily make her his wife. "Just because a guy finds a woman sexually attractive doesn't mean he'll marry her," said DDHG contributor The Average Guy. "Men will pretty much have sex with any moderately attractive woman, even if she's annoying, obnoxious or loud, but he won't ever commit to her. Men save that for the one woman who really takes his breath away."
2. Some guys suck - some men don't give another thought to roping a woman in emotionally, having sex with, then cutting her loose when talk of commitment comes up. "It's not right," said Average Guy. "But unfortunately, lots of men do it."
3. Commitment is creepy - many men fear commitment, but they don't fear having non-commital sex. "Men don't have the same emotional attachment to sex that women do," said Average Guy. "But bring up the word commitment and watch the emotions fly."
4. Sex isn't about love - to many men, sex and love don't mix. In fact, they're not even in the same ball park. "Sex is merely a physical release for most men," said Average Guy. "Love doesn't necessarily come along with ejaculation."
5. Commitment could backfire - along with a general fear of commitment for men comes a fear of failure. "A lot of guys think what happens if I commit and it doesn't work," said Average Guy. "Guys like that would rather have sex, but forego the commitment part of it for as long as they can." -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@dontdatehimgirl.com
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