Is It Really Okay to Go Out With a Guy Who's Got a Girlfriend?
Dear Tasha and the Love Panel,
I have a huge problem. This guy I work with asked me to go out to drinks after work one day. I said no, but he continues to ask me every now and then.
The problem is he has a girlfriend whom he lives with. He says things aren't going well for them right now. I really do like him and think he's cute, but if he's got a girlfriend, no matter how bad their relationship is, I should stay away, right?
-- CONFUSED, San Francisco
Dear Confused,
Yes, you should absolutely stay away from this guy. He's in no condition to date. He's got a troubled relationship with a woman he's living with and now he wants to involve you in his dating disasters. Don't go for it!
You don't want to be part of this triangle - him, you and his girlfriend. You should be looking for men who are available, not men trapped in bad relationships looking for an easy way out. Good luck!
I have a huge problem. This guy I work with asked me to go out to drinks after work one day. I said no, but he continues to ask me every now and then.
The problem is he has a girlfriend whom he lives with. He says things aren't going well for them right now. I really do like him and think he's cute, but if he's got a girlfriend, no matter how bad their relationship is, I should stay away, right?
-- CONFUSED, San Francisco
Dear Confused,
Yes, you should absolutely stay away from this guy. He's in no condition to date. He's got a troubled relationship with a woman he's living with and now he wants to involve you in his dating disasters. Don't go for it!
You don't want to be part of this triangle - him, you and his girlfriend. You should be looking for men who are available, not men trapped in bad relationships looking for an easy way out. Good luck!
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