The Dangers of Dating Fads - Where Do You Draw the Line?
We hear it in song lyrics, like "I Kissed a Girl and I Liked It." We see it on Grey's Anatomy, a top ranked television show, where one of the main doctors switches back and forth from guys to girls, even doing both in the same day.
She whines that she just can't figure out which sex fits. Another popular show, Desperate Housewives, recently gave us some girl girl kisses to boost the ratings. Yes, hooking up with girls is the biggest current sexual fad, but is it really a good idea?
Every generation pushes the sexual limits of its times. Going parking with boys in cars used to be naughty. Letting a guy get to first base and second base was only for trashy girls. By the seventies and eighties, everybody was having sex. Sleeping with different guys became the new bad girl thing to do. It was okay to do it, but only with one guy at a time. Today, these old bad girl behaviors are considered normal and are common. In our generation, hooking up and booty calls for casual sex among friends with no commitments has become the norm.
In today's world, the naughty thing to do is have threesomes or girl girl sex. Guys put it out there as their top sexual fantasy, so the girls try to make it come true. The point it, what will the new sexually naughty thing be tomorrow? Will it be Boy Boy sex among straight teens at parties, trying that on for size? Will it be teen swinging and teen orgies? How about group anal sex? How about incest? There are lots of sexual boundaries to push and then say it is normal, just like people today say straight girl-girl sex, just for fun and entertainment, is normal. Where do we draw the line?
Young teen girls today feel pressured to make out with girls at parties. Everybody is doing it, so why not? Drinking, smoking pot and doing drugs make it a lot easier to let go of inhibitions and drop boundaries. Lots of girls do it just to entertain the guys. It's the same old story in a changing new world. Girls are pushed beyond their limits, often while drinking or drugging, and often with the same results. The next day they feel embarrassed, ashamed and depressed.
How will our young people learn what a normal relationship feels like if they start off at teen parties pushing society's sexual limits with the next new thing?
Where are the parents of these guys and girls who are drinking, drugging, and pressuring each other into performing sexually for entertainment's sake? Why haven't we, as a society, had enough? When mainstream television picks up the latest sexual wild thing and makes it look like everybody is doing it, what do we tell the kids?
Share your thoughts with us on the blog or forum, or drop the Love Doctor a line at KerryLGray@gmail.com. We will post your answers on this thought provoking subject, so stay tuned to Don't Date Him Girl.com
She whines that she just can't figure out which sex fits. Another popular show, Desperate Housewives, recently gave us some girl girl kisses to boost the ratings. Yes, hooking up with girls is the biggest current sexual fad, but is it really a good idea?
Every generation pushes the sexual limits of its times. Going parking with boys in cars used to be naughty. Letting a guy get to first base and second base was only for trashy girls. By the seventies and eighties, everybody was having sex. Sleeping with different guys became the new bad girl thing to do. It was okay to do it, but only with one guy at a time. Today, these old bad girl behaviors are considered normal and are common. In our generation, hooking up and booty calls for casual sex among friends with no commitments has become the norm.
In today's world, the naughty thing to do is have threesomes or girl girl sex. Guys put it out there as their top sexual fantasy, so the girls try to make it come true. The point it, what will the new sexually naughty thing be tomorrow? Will it be Boy Boy sex among straight teens at parties, trying that on for size? Will it be teen swinging and teen orgies? How about group anal sex? How about incest? There are lots of sexual boundaries to push and then say it is normal, just like people today say straight girl-girl sex, just for fun and entertainment, is normal. Where do we draw the line?
Young teen girls today feel pressured to make out with girls at parties. Everybody is doing it, so why not? Drinking, smoking pot and doing drugs make it a lot easier to let go of inhibitions and drop boundaries. Lots of girls do it just to entertain the guys. It's the same old story in a changing new world. Girls are pushed beyond their limits, often while drinking or drugging, and often with the same results. The next day they feel embarrassed, ashamed and depressed.
How will our young people learn what a normal relationship feels like if they start off at teen parties pushing society's sexual limits with the next new thing?
Where are the parents of these guys and girls who are drinking, drugging, and pressuring each other into performing sexually for entertainment's sake? Why haven't we, as a society, had enough? When mainstream television picks up the latest sexual wild thing and makes it look like everybody is doing it, what do we tell the kids?
Share your thoughts with us on the blog or forum, or drop the Love Doctor a line at KerryLGray@gmail.com. We will post your answers on this thought provoking subject, so stay tuned to Don't Date Him Girl.com
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