What Guys Really Want When They First Meet You
When a guy first meets you, his number one priority is gathering information about you.
That's right. He wants to find out all he can about you. This is his mission and his job. You will see it happen over and over again.
A new man comes on very strong, asking questions and making requests. He wants to know all about you. He will ask you to send him pictures, links, your myspace, facebook, and twitter IMs. He will ask all about your girlfriends, family, guy friends, what you did yesterday and today and what you plan to do tomorrow.
As a girl, naturally you are flattered and very interested in this new man who seems so interested in you. You spill it all. You give him all the details, all of your info, good or bad, right or wrong, because this man is different. Right?
Wrong. A man's MISSION is to find out all about you so he can move on to the next girl! He is a hunter, and you are his prey. When you give him everything prematurely and he finally knows everything about you without building a strong connection and foundation first, he will suddenly drop you like a hot potato and be gone.
He will disappear and vanish without warning. He will leave you heartbroken and sad that your promising new relationship evaporated so quickly.
The next time a new guy asks for your info, photos, links and details, give him a little at a time. Build a strong connection with over time time. Maintain some mystery and make him work for the details. If you do this, he will stick around and he just might become the love of your life.
Write Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor at Kerrylgray@gmail.com for a personal reply to all your relationship problems and questions about life and love.
That's right. He wants to find out all he can about you. This is his mission and his job. You will see it happen over and over again.
A new man comes on very strong, asking questions and making requests. He wants to know all about you. He will ask you to send him pictures, links, your myspace, facebook, and twitter IMs. He will ask all about your girlfriends, family, guy friends, what you did yesterday and today and what you plan to do tomorrow.
As a girl, naturally you are flattered and very interested in this new man who seems so interested in you. You spill it all. You give him all the details, all of your info, good or bad, right or wrong, because this man is different. Right?
Wrong. A man's MISSION is to find out all about you so he can move on to the next girl! He is a hunter, and you are his prey. When you give him everything prematurely and he finally knows everything about you without building a strong connection and foundation first, he will suddenly drop you like a hot potato and be gone.
He will disappear and vanish without warning. He will leave you heartbroken and sad that your promising new relationship evaporated so quickly.
The next time a new guy asks for your info, photos, links and details, give him a little at a time. Build a strong connection with over time time. Maintain some mystery and make him work for the details. If you do this, he will stick around and he just might become the love of your life.
Write Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor at Kerrylgray@gmail.com for a personal reply to all your relationship problems and questions about life and love.
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