What Happens When You've Got No Future With a Guy You Love
Q. I have been with this guy for almost 4 years, I have stood by his side all this time and the bad thing is I know we have no future together for starters he is a registered sex offender and now I know that I have to walk away but what do you do when you love someone?
A. When you are deciding who you want to spend your life with, unfortunately love just isn't enough. You have to consider many other things including their level of responsibility, morals, values, and how much you trust them.
You say you have no future with this man and he has committed a despicable crime, so ask yourself "Why can't I walk away?" Are you afraid that you won't meet someone else?
Are you simply attached to him and you don't want to be alone? It is very hard to break up with someone especially after four years but for your own sake and the sake of your future (and your children if you plan to have them), you have no other option.
If you are really struggling with this issue, go talk to a professional therapist or someone you trust. Having someone objective to talk to on a regular basis will help you do the right thing. -- Alison James, Alison@ImproveYourAim.com
A. When you are deciding who you want to spend your life with, unfortunately love just isn't enough. You have to consider many other things including their level of responsibility, morals, values, and how much you trust them.
You say you have no future with this man and he has committed a despicable crime, so ask yourself "Why can't I walk away?" Are you afraid that you won't meet someone else?
Are you simply attached to him and you don't want to be alone? It is very hard to break up with someone especially after four years but for your own sake and the sake of your future (and your children if you plan to have them), you have no other option.
If you are really struggling with this issue, go talk to a professional therapist or someone you trust. Having someone objective to talk to on a regular basis will help you do the right thing. -- Alison James, Alison@ImproveYourAim.com
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