What Your Guy REALLY Means When He Says It's Him, Not You
He means exactly that. HE does not feel the connection strong enough to keep dating you.
HE does not feel like getting married right now, even if you are a great girl. HE is just not that into you. HE does not feel it for you.
He is right. It's not you, it's him. Men are telling the truth when they say this, and you better believe him. Don't waste your time trying to change his mind. The harder you push, the more firm he will be in his resolve that you are not the right girl for him.
If you hear this from a man and you still want a chance with him in the future, your only
hope is to believe him for now, back off and plan your next move.
Men need to feel a connection to keep dating you, and when he does not feel it, he tells you
this by telling you "it's me, not you." To get married, men need to be ready to settle down. The right girl does not matter as much as feeling like he is finally in a place and ready to create a marriage. Until he feels that way, he is being honest. It's not you, it's him.
The best strategy is to believe him and move on, or at least stop pushing him and give him
some space and some rest from your relationship. Give him time and see if he comes back. When he does, it might be your turn to say "it's not you, it's me."
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
KerryLGray@gmail.com
HE does not feel like getting married right now, even if you are a great girl. HE is just not that into you. HE does not feel it for you.
He is right. It's not you, it's him. Men are telling the truth when they say this, and you better believe him. Don't waste your time trying to change his mind. The harder you push, the more firm he will be in his resolve that you are not the right girl for him.
If you hear this from a man and you still want a chance with him in the future, your only
hope is to believe him for now, back off and plan your next move.
Men need to feel a connection to keep dating you, and when he does not feel it, he tells you
this by telling you "it's me, not you." To get married, men need to be ready to settle down. The right girl does not matter as much as feeling like he is finally in a place and ready to create a marriage. Until he feels that way, he is being honest. It's not you, it's him.
The best strategy is to believe him and move on, or at least stop pushing him and give him
some space and some rest from your relationship. Give him time and see if he comes back. When he does, it might be your turn to say "it's not you, it's me."
Kerry Gray, the Love Doctor
KerryLGray@gmail.com
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