What's a Man's Biggest Turnoff?
It is telling him what to do or how to do things. Being bossy is something men detest! Men say this is one of the biggest relationship mistakes that a girl can make. It makes her seem like a nag, and men's don't want another mother.
Men like to figure out things on their own. Men like to be the boss of their surroundings. Men like to be trusted to take care of all kinds of problems, and when a girl tells him what to do or how to do it then it means she does not trust him to handle things.
What can you do to stop telling him what to do? Decide that you can trust him to take care of things, and then do it. Put matters in your man's very capable hands. Let him make decisions, and give him time to figure problems out on his own.
Let him have control over as many things as you can. Make him the real boss at home and in your love life. Let go of your need to control things by telling him what to do and when and how to do it. You will be more at peace in your relationship, and he will feel greater satisfaction when you trust him to really be the boss. -- Kerry L. Gray, kerry@dontdatehimgirl.com
Men like to figure out things on their own. Men like to be the boss of their surroundings. Men like to be trusted to take care of all kinds of problems, and when a girl tells him what to do or how to do it then it means she does not trust him to handle things.
What can you do to stop telling him what to do? Decide that you can trust him to take care of things, and then do it. Put matters in your man's very capable hands. Let him make decisions, and give him time to figure problems out on his own.
Let him have control over as many things as you can. Make him the real boss at home and in your love life. Let go of your need to control things by telling him what to do and when and how to do it. You will be more at peace in your relationship, and he will feel greater satisfaction when you trust him to really be the boss. -- Kerry L. Gray, kerry@dontdatehimgirl.com
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