Why Guy Hate Ultimatums...And What You Can Do It
Guys hate being told what to do. It's a fact. No one knows why, but that's just the way it is. Maybe it has something to do with our mothers telling us what to do when we were little.
We also hate confrontation, arguing and being judged. And we especially hate the "do this or else" mentality that a lot of women have these days.
So instead of telling your guy "it's been two years, marry me or else", try something a little more inviting like "hey, baby, I love you so much that I think I want to be with you forever and I want to marry you."
Trust me, option #2 is going to get you a lot further with your guy than putting his back up against a wall and ordering him to do something that's probably not going to make him happy anyway.
When you approach him with love and kindness, whatever you want becomes something inviting and appealing, but when you give him an ultimatum and tell him he has to do something, suddenly you've become like his mother scolding him when he was younger. And no guy wants that! -- The Average Guy
We also hate confrontation, arguing and being judged. And we especially hate the "do this or else" mentality that a lot of women have these days.
So instead of telling your guy "it's been two years, marry me or else", try something a little more inviting like "hey, baby, I love you so much that I think I want to be with you forever and I want to marry you."
Trust me, option #2 is going to get you a lot further with your guy than putting his back up against a wall and ordering him to do something that's probably not going to make him happy anyway.
When you approach him with love and kindness, whatever you want becomes something inviting and appealing, but when you give him an ultimatum and tell him he has to do something, suddenly you've become like his mother scolding him when he was younger. And no guy wants that! -- The Average Guy
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