He offers women online "EXTRA POINTS FOR SEXINESS." Well, I think his actions should get him extra points on here! So, I ask that you CLICK ON THE STARS THAT SHOW ON THIS POST to rate it as HIGH AS POSSIBLE!!! I WOULD NOMINATE THIS GUY FOR AN OSCAR IF I COULD. Like many of you, I'm struggling to determine HOW I'll be able to trust someone in the future after being COMPLETELY BETRAYED by this man. He was someone I trusted and really believed in. He vowed to be monogamous. He had EVERYTHING he could ever ask for and FAR MORE THAN HE DESERVED in our 1 1/2 year relationship. We were playful, sharing, romantic, passionate, and had numerous mutual interests. I didn't dump any baggage on him, but stuck with him through his own rough times. He was a very lucky man who was treated exceptionally well, but who TOTALLY DECEIVED ME. I discovered first-hand and PRINTED OUT IRREFUTABLE PROOF that throughout many months of our relationship, he SECRETLY WENT BEHIND MY BACK AND JOINED COUNTLESS DATING AND "ALTERNATIVE" WEBSITES. On each site he took considerable time and effort to construct his detailed personal profiles, complete with pictures. Even more disturbing is that his profiles on the dating sites said he was searching for a woman with all MY traits and interests! (Couldn't figure that one out and really shouldn't have bothered trying, as there is NO ACCEPTABLE EXCUSE!) His profiles on the "alternative" sites said that he was searching for "discreet encounters." He's currently on Match as StrongBodynMind, TRUE as Tonykv05, and on Yahoo Personals all at the same time! And YES...he secretly had these up and running while we were dating "exclusively" as well. On two of them, he claims he lives in the Lincoln Park area of Chicago. He doesn't! He's a suburbanite! When I found his posts I confronted him and, if it weren't for the fact that I saw SO MANY of his profile listings with MY OWN TWO EYES, I would have believed him when he LOOKED ME IN THE EYE AND SWORE he wasn't on ANY of those websites. It really troubled me how sincere he APPEARED while he blatantly lied right to me! For obvious reasons, the relationship is OVER and sadly, should have been a LONG time ago! There's another posting about him on this website.