Cheater/Player/Womanizer - Psychiatry tells us that this category of men either have a deep-seated fear of being gay AND/OR a small package and little or no technique. That's the reason for deceiving and using women - It makes them feel that they aren't gay; that they are big enough; that they're really imaginative and creative in the bedroom - in essence, that they're "man enough." It's all just a lie. They lie to get the women; they lie to their buddies about how great they are with the women; and they lie to themselves about who they are. They're really twisted inside. A sex addict who can't be cured. And please don't romanticize the word "sex addict." They REALLY are the "Slam, Bam, Thank You, Ma'm kind of guys."