I thought I had met the 'Love of My Life', but he turned out to be a nightmare. When I met him, he told me he wanted to start dating, because his divorce would be final in a few weeks. He pursued me, saying he loved me and wanted me in his life. Later, I googled his username and discovered several things. First, he was not divorced. He had another girlfriend who had cheated with for seven years. Most disturbing is that I found his profiles on gay men's dating sites. All had his regular pictures, plus one had a close-up of his penis. On a third site, Senior Finder, he his profile was geared toward women, but I found his profile in the Men Looking for Men forum. Since we had been intimate, I had to go through six months of aids testing. He was not a responsible adult, because he would never talk to about his sexual history. He has not talked to me since, I made the discoveries. I have written a blog and posted him here on DDHG. Previously, his busy body sister, his attorney, and his girlfriend, Lori Reattoire, of Opal, VA, have tried to bully me into deleting my writings. The facts are Steven John Krantz is an irresponsible adult, who has mastered the art of manipulation. If he were an honorable man, he would not have a post here and a separate blog titled: The Steven John Krantz Nightmare. http://moveontowhere.blogspot.com/