Derek Lebkey's daughter again. My mother married him twice. My mother isn't stupid enough to stay with someone who is "SO abusive". My mother told me he never taped her doing anything and he never made her do anything with another man. My mother also let me go visit him over the summer and he has stayed with us over the summer. If he was really like this; he wouldn't be anywhere near us. My father is just like my twin sister; shy, quiet, passive and sweet. Yes, he is good looking. He isn't full of himself. He likes to keep in shape for the health of it. My mother has never said anything but positive things about him.

Your a lier.

Update: I just got a permanent restraining order against the psycho who posted this slander on me. Woo Hoo!! I am so stoked that the judge saw through all her lies and bullshit. Nice try LOSER!!!! This author has a long criminal history Including: 1) Felony Possession of a Hallucinogen 2) Damage to Property- Private Domestic Violence 3) Disturbing the Peace- Domestic Violence 4) Assault- Domestic Violence 5) Crimes Against Person- See Mis. Harrassment- Phone Threat/Obscenitiy Factual Basis: Domestic Violence. Dispo: Deferred and Dismessed after 9 Months of Probation. Then Denver detectives are currently doing an investigation on a violation of a restraining order. You piece of S**t thank god for justice.

Yep, and he has been leaving a paper trail of interivews, etc. negating everything said on the comment he has posted; if you ar stupid enough to believe him, Jack, or Jackie, or whatever your androgynous name is, you are exactly what i informed you that you are when you made that harrassing call to me on Thanksgiving. See you in court, too.

First of all I want to say that I was amazed that this site would allow people to blog such lies and slander on the internet. Now, I really appreciate this site and I will tell you why. I was very smitten with the writer of this post. She is very attractive and intellegent. She told me she had an IQ of 160 and I was flattered that such a person would be interested in me. She told me she loved me and wanted to have a relationship with me. However, I had this feeling in my gut that she was going to hurt me. I couldn't shake the feeling no matter how hard I tried, so I kept my distance and wanted to take it slow to see if my feelings were valid or if it was all in my imagination. First of all I want to say I only saw this woman 4 or 5 times. This was not a long term committed relationship. She kept pushing for a commitment, but I was so afraid of her that I couldn't and didn't know why. I told her this and her response was, "I would never hurt you." She confided in me that she sues people to suppliment her income and it was an easy way to make a quick $7-8,000 dollars. I told her I didn't agree with this and that it was a major barrier in us having a relationship. Despite this fact I knew I was falling in love with her. I tried very hard despite this to continue to take it slow. She made a suggestion for her to stay with me during the week so we could have more time together. I was even thinking of ways to arrange my house so that she could do her work at that time and even bring her cats to stay with us. I was about to discuss this with her and make a commitment for an exclusive relationship. I was planning on telling her the next morning. In the middle of the night I woke up in a cold sweat with that feeling again that this woman was planning on hurting me. I thereafter went to my computer and Googled my name. That is how I found the first posting. I was completely shocked. This woman was still seeing me when she wrote the first posting. Why, I asked myself would someone do such a thing. I still don't have an answer for that. I didn't tell her I found the post right away because I was so shocked. She later asked me if I would serve a subpeana for one of her upcoming lawsuits which I refused. I told her you know I don't believe it what you are doing and I won't do that. The next thing I know there is an email from her naked in a bathtub. She stated that since I wouldn't serve the subpeana she had one of her male friends do it. He told her he would serve the subpeana if she would allow him to bathe her naked. I was so hurt, not only for this posting, but for sleeping with another man when she told me she wanted to have a relationship with me. The reason she kept taking this posting on and off was because she was attempting to use it as leverage to get me back. She stated if I give her another chance she would remove it. I ended up filing harassment charges against her thereafter after her third posting when I wouldn't take her back. Se admitted to the detective handling the case that she never saw a camera. While she was staying at my house she had full reign and would have found a camera if she believed there was one. Why again, I ask myself, would anyone do this to someone they profess to love. I am still hurt over this and find it difficult to move on. I have been put on 2 antidepressants, medication for panic attacks and nightmares. I have missed work and had to see a new practioner for my depression. I believe I could truely have loved this woman. Well, as it turned out my intuition was right all along. This woman wanted to hurt me in the worst way. She has methotically tried to ruin my entire life. I keep thinking of the movies, Fatal Attraction and Play Misty for me. As it turns out I am grateful for this site as it prevented me from making a big mistake and getting into a commited relationship with this person. I am trying hard to forgive her as I believe God wants us to forgive others, but right now I am still so hurt and shocked.